The LadyKiller
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- Oct 5, 2011
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After the last girl I had posted about and I encountered several scheduling obstacles and haven't been able to find the time to meet up (she's on a business trip, the project I am means long hours), I have begun asking my friends in relationships if they or their girlfriends know any HB's looking to meet up with someone. Fair enough to ask, I think.
The results have not only been unsuccessful, but also odd. My friends act like it's a crazy request and raise their noses up, forgetting that I have introduced them to plenty girls in the past. The girlfriends have friends, but there's instantly a story as to why it wouldn't work. Today, one of my friends mentioned a friend he wanted to set my buddy up with, but my buddy just got into a relationship. Seeing how we're all friends, I inquire. He didn't give a reason, but also didn't seem willing to help.
I'm used to having to get HBs by myself. I've very rarely ever had an effective wingman and have come to expect people offering help to let me down (comes from experience). However, changing times mean I could use a little help from my friends in my social circle, and I'm not receiving it.
I'm not perfect, but I believe I'm a solid catch and dateable at the very least. Is there anything I could say or do to garner more support from my friends?
The results have not only been unsuccessful, but also odd. My friends act like it's a crazy request and raise their noses up, forgetting that I have introduced them to plenty girls in the past. The girlfriends have friends, but there's instantly a story as to why it wouldn't work. Today, one of my friends mentioned a friend he wanted to set my buddy up with, but my buddy just got into a relationship. Seeing how we're all friends, I inquire. He didn't give a reason, but also didn't seem willing to help.
I'm used to having to get HBs by myself. I've very rarely ever had an effective wingman and have come to expect people offering help to let me down (comes from experience). However, changing times mean I could use a little help from my friends in my social circle, and I'm not receiving it.
I'm not perfect, but I believe I'm a solid catch and dateable at the very least. Is there anything I could say or do to garner more support from my friends?