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How to perform longer

SayWhat

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I feel I'm coming too fast, always stopping to be able to go further a minute later. This is quite annoying for her and me.

Any tips too be able to do it much longer?

Thanks
 

soden

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Fluoxetin/Prozac 10mg/day (or 70mg/week)

Really no joke, it's already evidence-based.
 

MtnMan

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soden said:
Fluoxetin/Prozac 10mg/day (or 70mg/week)

Really no joke, it's already evidence-based.
what??

take prozak so you don't cvm to fast? ridiculous.

Try working on kegel exercises and edging if you want to train yourself how to have better control over your orgasm.
 

dasein

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If missionary, alternate thrusting with high riding and very slow circular motion grinding with the base of the c-ck on the cl-t. Many women respond to this better than thrusts anyway (get her to masturbate in front of you to tell which) Switch positions and change tempo every couple of minutes also. 'Try to keep your core muscles relaxed early on rather than tensing up. Do kegels and other core exercises regularly.

If it's happening right when you go in, as in truly premature ejac, go in but don't start thrusting or moving much. Take that time to kiss her, grab her hand, look in her eyes, stroke her hair, anything other than starting to fast hump. Relax your whole body. When I had this problem young, it was solved by learning to relax and control breath and thoughts. Not starting the dirty talk or heavy pounding until after my c-ck had been in the vag awhile and "gotten used to its comfortable new home" helped too LOL.

Whatever you do, don't worry about it. If you blow one early, don't believe the movie thing where the girl pouts and acts like an ass, just start up the foreplay again and wait for the refractory period to end. One day down the road in all likelihood you will be wishing to come faster. Good luck.
 

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practice, jerk off before you expect to get laid, and yes, people are prescribed low dose anti-depressants for this if nothing else works.
 

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Intense cardio will help too... Like sprints or other HIIT. Your overall physical condition has a huge impact on your bedroom performance. Are you working out?

Edited to add: I don't think jerking off beforehand is a good idea. It will dull your senses and overall experience.
 

MtnMan

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MOTU said:
Edited to add: I don't think jerking off beforehand is a good idea. It will dull your senses and overall experience.
agreed, i prefer to go in it with a fully loaded gun. Physical fitness is key too for sure.
 

ace88

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MOTU said:
Intense cardio will help too... Like sprints or other HIIT. Your overall physical condition has a huge impact on your bedroom performance. Are you working out?

Edited to add: I don't think jerking off beforehand is a good idea. It will dull your senses and overall experience.
Best advice ever right here!


I can tell you, due to health issues my physical performance has gone down and the effects can be seen in bed.


Work out you'll be fine.
 

marmel75

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testosterone...you need more of it
 

Dgwizdal

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Count from 550 in your head down to 0 while f*cking almost saying it out load on the tip of your tongue.

Talk dirty to her

Also - get a few viagras and you WILL get over this.

Worked for me.
 

taiyuu_otoko

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Practice with porn. Seriously. Get some of your favorite porn, jack it until just before the moment of no return, then back off. Then jack it again till you get to that point, and then back off. If you do this once a day for 30-60 minutes, you'll soon be a hero in bed.
 

VladPatton

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When you're about to blow like Vesuvius, grab the base of your man snake and hold it firm. Not too tight. Sort of like squeezing a baker's piping bag as you write "Happy Birthday" on a cake.
 
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