Best way to get back to her place when on a date?

nyc123 said:

if you had a place:
want to hang out at my place?
want to come over for some drinks?

but you don't have a place. you may have to say something like
can we hang out at your place?
lol, it seems less polite. hopefully she invites you. perhaps you should cleverly let her know you don't have an open crib. this way if she wants to get into the bed, she'll consider inviting you over rather than waiting for you to invite her (which you never will)

but maybe if you're making out with her already and its heated, you can ask her if she wants to get a room in a motel. or ask if you two can take it to her place.

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Espi said:

If you get them wet, they'll stay wet for awhile. Just because you don't fvuck them that particular night doesn't mean that you permanantly missed your chance. Making them wait can actually be a good thing sometimes.

But I do agree with you. If your gut's telling you that she's down to fvuck, then go caveman on them and rub their t1ts and psvssy. If she likes it then ask, "Would you like to go somewhere that's a bit more private?" Beware that asking this can turn into a shiat test. She will likely go into anti-slut mode. You MUST be willing to suddenly end the date if she seems wishy washy. "Ah ok well I should get going anyway." Just be sure to start walking. If you don't fvuck her that night then at least she knows you'll expect it on the next date. They love being pursued. They love the drama and tension of being sexually pursued by a man.

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Espi said:

I don't personally suggest this unless there's been some serious KINO'ing established. In my opinion escalating from talking to fvucking almost always MUST involve physical touching--the more KINO, the better. When you say, "I'd love for you to show me ______ at your place," it's bold because you're expressing your sexual desire. But it can also seem desperate and creepy if you haven't even gauged her sexual willingness first via KINO.

What I do is, Invite them for a drink or two on Date #1. Alcohol is a great way to loosen them up--figuratively and literally. After about an hour or 90 minutes, I'll suddenly say, "Well you ready to go?" Then I'll walk them to their car. When we arrive at the car and I say goodbye to them, I learn a LOT about how interested she actually is. Some just give me a hug; some give me a cheek; a few will share a nice intimate kiss; fewer still will make out with me in the parking lot, just short of my rubbing their tits and psvussy. And occasionally, I'll get laid that same night. On some weekends, I've gotten laid by two different women on the first date, even on the same night.

Sometimes, on date #2, I'll get laid by the chicks who only hugged me the last time, and sometimes, I'll get a hug by the ones who made out with me. There's no rules or logic to it, in my opinion. You just have to keep swinging the bat. For every 10 that I take out, I might get laid 1 or 2 times.

Getting laid is all a crapshoot and it runs in cycles. Some women, I suspect, I just happened to take out on the night that they were feeling really horny and I was the guy who happened to fvuck them. Fine with me.

Also, if you're talking about a movie in the context of a public theatre, I don't suggest that, either. I never take a chick out to the movies. Waste of my time and money. At least not until I've slept with them and I really WANT her to watch the movie with me. I actually prefer to watch first-run movies alone. The last one I was interested enough to go see was Get On Up--the one about James Brown. I went to see it during the day (really good movie, by the way).



I would say start off with kissing then work your way down. That's a good general rule for me to follow. The more I do this, the better I get. I've gotten much better at "sensing" when to hit the gas and when to use the brakes. You just have to practice and repeat. It took me lots of dates and several years and I'm still a work in progress at 43 years old.

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