Alright fellas, gonna try keep it simple and brief..
Met a girl, both in our mid 20's, liked her, she liked me back. Asked her out. Dated for a few months..
We're both Asians but of different races. She told me early on that her family would never accept me as I'm not the "correct type" of Asian. Soon after being together, she told me we have to break up as we'll never have a future together because of her family - her family believes in arranged marriages...
I pretended to played it cool but I had fallen for by then. I ignored her for a few days then I broke, and told her that I'm not gonna back down. We argued and I ignored her again. 2-3 weeks later, she told me her family has chosen someone for her and she'll get married within the year.
I wished her a good life and played it cool.. Have had no contact for a good 4-5 months. She now texts me saying:
"Hi, I know you must hate me & I have no right texting you but just as a friend, I wanted to see how you are? If everything is going ok? I don't expect a reply but I hope you're ok and in good health".
It's been months... NOW she's concerned about me? Wtf is this? Do I even bother replying?
I've thought about replying with this: I don't know what you're trying to prove with your text but one thing you have proved is that you still think about me..
Here is the twist in the story... Me and her use to work together, that's how we met. When I left the workplace, I asked her out then. I've been working elsewhere and I've recently been offered a new contract at my old workplace & I've accepted it - better money.. This means I'm gonna see her face-to-face often. How do I deal with it? And what should I do about the text??
Met a girl, both in our mid 20's, liked her, she liked me back. Asked her out. Dated for a few months..
We're both Asians but of different races. She told me early on that her family would never accept me as I'm not the "correct type" of Asian. Soon after being together, she told me we have to break up as we'll never have a future together because of her family - her family believes in arranged marriages...
I pretended to played it cool but I had fallen for by then. I ignored her for a few days then I broke, and told her that I'm not gonna back down. We argued and I ignored her again. 2-3 weeks later, she told me her family has chosen someone for her and she'll get married within the year.
I wished her a good life and played it cool.. Have had no contact for a good 4-5 months. She now texts me saying:
"Hi, I know you must hate me & I have no right texting you but just as a friend, I wanted to see how you are? If everything is going ok? I don't expect a reply but I hope you're ok and in good health".
It's been months... NOW she's concerned about me? Wtf is this? Do I even bother replying?
I've thought about replying with this: I don't know what you're trying to prove with your text but one thing you have proved is that you still think about me..
Here is the twist in the story... Me and her use to work together, that's how we met. When I left the workplace, I asked her out then. I've been working elsewhere and I've recently been offered a new contract at my old workplace & I've accepted it - better money.. This means I'm gonna see her face-to-face often. How do I deal with it? And what should I do about the text??