I think the overall message I have gotten from all the time I have invested in this whole community, red pill, pua, dating and natural game and really more experience than anything is that women are not all that they are cracked up to be. They are wonderful beings but a man has to look out for himself.
Overall sex and being loved by women is not the most important thing. The important thing is that a man loves who he is and enjoys his life as much as possible. He does not find his validation from sex or from another women. Or really anybody else. He finds it within. However we are human and sex is a natural thing. It's as natural as eating, ****ting, and seeing.
Guys see it as this grand thing where they have to do special things or they won't be able to have sex. While you have to be an attractive man to a women in order for it to happen, that is a by product from really being a man who takes care of himself and gives a **** about himself. Or at least thinks he knows what's best for him. That is what confidence is.
About women though, men need to stop worrying about how to attract her and start thinking about if he is attracted to her. What is she doing that's worth your time? Of course she needs to pass the boner test but there certainly is more to it. Women communicate with their actions most. What is she doing that makes her worth your time? Does she respect you? Is she highly invested in you? If she's not is she really that much more than a women you **** and move on from? At best? Besides the sex, what else is there? Nothing really. If she is not contributing to your life and your purpose then what is her purpose other than to **** and move on from? It does nothing.
Yet guys are spending their current lives obsessing about how they can win the girl over who ultimately doesn't give two ****s about him. Where that time could be more used and energy could be spent on making your life better and more enjoyable. Or at least enjoying it right now. And holy ****! When you start doing that women start to see that you aren't a guy who has her pvssy on the pedestal and that there is much more important things that he cares about than whether he bangs her that night.
You don't think a man with that passion is extremely attractive? That he would also move that passion into the bedroom too? Your bet your ass a women who finds you attractive would think this. But men don't think this about themselves and so they sell themselves short. Because they aren't living with that enjoyment in their lives. Where it simply wouldn't matter if she was a ONS, an acquaintance, FWB, or LTR. Those things take care of themselves when you are highly invested in yourself and when you only care for women who invest highly in you. It's no coincidence that she invests more in you when you stop being highly invested in her and what happens with her and more invested in yourself.
Overall sex and being loved by women is not the most important thing. The important thing is that a man loves who he is and enjoys his life as much as possible. He does not find his validation from sex or from another women. Or really anybody else. He finds it within. However we are human and sex is a natural thing. It's as natural as eating, ****ting, and seeing.
Guys see it as this grand thing where they have to do special things or they won't be able to have sex. While you have to be an attractive man to a women in order for it to happen, that is a by product from really being a man who takes care of himself and gives a **** about himself. Or at least thinks he knows what's best for him. That is what confidence is.
About women though, men need to stop worrying about how to attract her and start thinking about if he is attracted to her. What is she doing that's worth your time? Of course she needs to pass the boner test but there certainly is more to it. Women communicate with their actions most. What is she doing that makes her worth your time? Does she respect you? Is she highly invested in you? If she's not is she really that much more than a women you **** and move on from? At best? Besides the sex, what else is there? Nothing really. If she is not contributing to your life and your purpose then what is her purpose other than to **** and move on from? It does nothing.
Yet guys are spending their current lives obsessing about how they can win the girl over who ultimately doesn't give two ****s about him. Where that time could be more used and energy could be spent on making your life better and more enjoyable. Or at least enjoying it right now. And holy ****! When you start doing that women start to see that you aren't a guy who has her pvssy on the pedestal and that there is much more important things that he cares about than whether he bangs her that night.
You don't think a man with that passion is extremely attractive? That he would also move that passion into the bedroom too? Your bet your ass a women who finds you attractive would think this. But men don't think this about themselves and so they sell themselves short. Because they aren't living with that enjoyment in their lives. Where it simply wouldn't matter if she was a ONS, an acquaintance, FWB, or LTR. Those things take care of themselves when you are highly invested in yourself and when you only care for women who invest highly in you. It's no coincidence that she invests more in you when you stop being highly invested in her and what happens with her and more invested in yourself.
