I met this girl about a year and a half ago. She lives here during the summer. At first I wasn't sexually atrracted to her, we talked through messages and stuff and it was ok and still didn't feel anything. Two of my former friends were in love with her but she rejected them. She is one of the reasons I am not longer friends with them. As you can probably see, I started falling in love with her without even realizing it, because, who leaves their friends in order to be a friend with some girl?
Anyway, about 10 days ago she came here after we didn't see each other for 3 months. We went out a couple of times but I didn't go for it. I was too afraid of losing her in my life. Then I realized if I don"t do anything soon, I will see her with someone else and I wouldn't handle it.
3 nights ago, I brought my friend and she brought hers' (those two ended up together one night last year). We were out in a bar, had a few drinks. Those two said that they're going for a ride. Half an hour later us two took off and on half our way to the car we were on a bridge. I knew it was now or never. I took her hand a tried to kiss her. She backed off, said it would be like the two of the other guys she blew off. I said that nothing has to change..we can just have fun. We then made out for a few seconds. Everything was ok later. We discussed it and everything felt normal.
Since then, I saw her two times passing by with her friend and we just said hello to each other and that's it.
No messages like before, no nothing.
I am continuing to live my life like before that happened. I don't want to contact her because I know that would make things worse.
I don't expect any special tactical plans from you guys about winning her or something like that. I just want your opinion and advice. Is it best to just to continue what I am doing now and pretend I don't care?
Thanks in advance
Anyway, about 10 days ago she came here after we didn't see each other for 3 months. We went out a couple of times but I didn't go for it. I was too afraid of losing her in my life. Then I realized if I don"t do anything soon, I will see her with someone else and I wouldn't handle it.
3 nights ago, I brought my friend and she brought hers' (those two ended up together one night last year). We were out in a bar, had a few drinks. Those two said that they're going for a ride. Half an hour later us two took off and on half our way to the car we were on a bridge. I knew it was now or never. I took her hand a tried to kiss her. She backed off, said it would be like the two of the other guys she blew off. I said that nothing has to change..we can just have fun. We then made out for a few seconds. Everything was ok later. We discussed it and everything felt normal.
Since then, I saw her two times passing by with her friend and we just said hello to each other and that's it.
No messages like before, no nothing.
I am continuing to live my life like before that happened. I don't want to contact her because I know that would make things worse.
I don't expect any special tactical plans from you guys about winning her or something like that. I just want your opinion and advice. Is it best to just to continue what I am doing now and pretend I don't care?
Thanks in advance