Could NOT get fully hard last night...WTF!?

spiegel549 · Jul 21, 2014

Last night drove me INSANE. I had a HOT latina in my bed...we did everything under the sun to each other but my co*k would not get more hard then 3/4 of the way. You know when your just under the right amount of hardness to stick it in and you just need a little more and its ready? I WAS STUCK. I only drank a few drinks too...usually alcohol never effects me.

WTF do you think my problem was? Over masturbating maybe?

Please share your opinions and stories. This is mentally eating at me...

jurry · Jul 21, 2014

Sucks man, the only reasons ive ever found for that are thinking too much, too nervous or excited etc., or the chick just doesnt really do it for you, lack of sexual chemistry.

BetterCallSaul · Jul 21, 2014

Whiskey d*ck? Either that or you might be more tired than you know. Take a day or two to really rest and try again.

bukowski_merit · Jul 21, 2014

Were you using condoms? Whenever i have this issue - 4 out of 5 times im using condoms - so, i take it off, and I just make the girl give me head for an obnoxious amount of time. Until I've been hard for a good 10 minutes. Then i slip a condom on and hope for the best. Pro Tip: If you are banging her with a condom - and let's say 5 minutes into it - you start to feel like you're losing your hardness. Instead of making it known - just "act" like you're cvming... A woman would much rather a man cvm quick than not be able to get hard. Then you can get ready for round 2, and there's a lot more leeway for not being able to get hard during round 2.... So the stress of the situation should be less on both of you.

If we aren't using condoms - normally just putting it in and feeling her wetness is enough to keep me rock hard. If it's not - she's probably really loose or way too wet (they normally go hand and hand).

Another thing that's worked in the past: Putting all my clothes back on. Going to the kitchen table, having a few more drinks, or smoke a lil something. Then go back and try again. The second time success rate is much higher. This normally is only possible if you have a history with the woman and she's willing to stick around (women who you have no history with probably won't stick around after a failed attempt at sex).

Bingo-Player · Jul 21, 2014

yea I've had this twice and both chicks were pretty hot to be fair

i think contributing factors for me are

a lack of sleep

smoking

drinking

eating ****e food

but saying that I've done all of those on holiday and still got rock hard and banged so its weird

must be something to do with chemicals in the brain

RabidWolverine · Jul 21, 2014

try citrulline. its cheap - $25 for 500gs on the right site.

also, if youre a weight lifter, it helps with muscle fatigue.

ive never had much a prob with e.q. but this stuff made me rock hard.

still, dont get down on yourself bro - this happens to a lot of guys once and a while.

if you want the name of the brand i use, PM me. not sure if you can post direct product links on here.

logicallefty · Jul 21, 2014

All great possibilities suggested by others here. I have one additional:

Any new prescription medicines?

Back in 09 I was on this ultra strength antibiotic for cellulitis and it caused my sex drive to go all wacko and I had issues staying hard at times.

I also had this happen back in 93 when I was on Paxil, an anti depressant.

Yo'Mama · Jul 21, 2014

Just take Viagra dude. It works. I only take it when banging a girl for the first time. Once you've nailed her good once, you'll be fine without it in the future. It's good to know you have a stash though, just in case. If it's not happening just excuse yourself, pop one, kill 30 mins or so with foreplay (long I know), then you'll be good to go.

spiegel549 · Jul 21, 2014

Yo'Mama said:
Just take Viagra dude. It works. I only take it when banging a girl for the first time. Once you've nailed her good once, you'll be fine without it in the future. It's good to know you have a stash though, just in case. If it's not happening just excuse yourself, pop one, kill 30 mins or so with foreplay (long I know), then you'll be good to go.

Thanks for the replies brothers. After reading through all your comments I think I came to the conclusion that my body had to of been more exhausted then I thought and I didn't realize it. I NEVER have this issue. Ever. I was actually stressing out (keeping it cool in front of her) but going crazy like WTF GET FULLY HARD!!

Now that I thought about it...

Friday did an insane leg workout, then when out to a nightclub and went home with some broad until the next day, then basically did the same thing Saturday, and when Sunday came I guess by the time I got that latina on my bed my body had to of been shut off..

The next morning when she was already dressed I woke up with a rager (morning wood) but it was too late.

About the Viagra and Pills

I have a few of my boys that have them in a draw just in case. Yo'Mama Whats the dosage you take? My boy told me since I am 27 if I ever had a problem to take half of a 25mg and it will be ready to go in 30.

Hows your experience with it? I refuse to do it all the time but would be nice to know I have a few pills in a draw just in case this sh!t happens again.

Thanks men.

EDIT ADD

bukowski_merit Was not wearing a condom yet at that point. It was 3/4 hard. The point where its still too soft to stick it in, I just needed a little more blood flow and I would of been ready...really frustrated me.

Montague_Leach · Jul 21, 2014

spiegel549 said:
WTF do you think my problem was? Over masturbating maybe?

My goodness, why are you still milking the cow with all these beautiful lasses around my friend? That rod should be intruding a warm vagina, not being stroked by the hand of your cherry palm.

When the 'ol pecker isn't as firm and hard as it used to be, there is no shame in getting a little extra enhancement from a pill if you know what I mean. No use in going in with a soft noodle to be embarrassed leaving the lass unsatisfied. See a doctor to get a good diagnoses for your problem. Impotence could be setting in at an early age from all that extra masturbating where it could affect the rest of your sexual performances. Find out from a professional what your problem is, then you can have peace of mind my friend.

Thorninmyside · Jul 21, 2014

Go through the checklist:

No fap?
Enough sleep?
Enough zinc, iron, vitamin b?
Not that attracted?
Overthinking your performance?
Need a little blue friend to get you started?
Enough foreplay / anticipation to get you ready?

The only one you don't have much control over is the non attraction. But even then, telling the girl what you're gonna do to her dirty ass might get you more revved up too.

spiegel549 · Jul 21, 2014

Thorninmyside said:
Go through the checklist:

No fap?
Enough sleep?
Enough zinc, iron, vitamin b?
Not that attracted?
Overthinking your performance?
Need a little blue friend to get you started?
Enough foreplay / anticipation to get you ready?

The only one you don't have much control over is the non attraction. But even then, telling the girl what you're gonna do to her dirty ass might get you more revved up too.

Good check list bro. I literally smashed a girl Friday & Sat and had no problems. Sunday came and I just couldn't rock it past that 3/4 phase.

It had to of been lack of sleep, probably tired.

The Zinc, Iron, Vit B. You find that it helps to keep everything working?

I have heard from my boys that they have experienced that before but for me it was a first time lol...sorta freaked me out you know?

Thorninmyside · Jul 21, 2014

I dated a nutrionist who said that low zinc can contribute to erectile disfunction. Not enough iron or vitamin b makes me energy depleted and also less in the mood.

Fireballs · Jul 21, 2014

I've had this happen when I've been a bit nervous with a new girl and had some performance anxiety.

Got some Viagra from the doc which helped my confidence.

Have also tried Cialis and I prefer it to Viagra which only lasts about 4 hours but with Cialis, I have still had the effects of it 48 hours later. Awesome to take if you're having a dirty weekend away with the gf. Half of a 20mg pill and you're set.

Yo'Mama · Jul 22, 2014

spiegel549 said:
Thanks for the replies brothers. After reading through all your comments I think I came to the conclusion that my body had to of been more exhausted then I thought and I didn't realize it. I NEVER have this issue. Ever. I was actually stressing out (keeping it cool in front of her) but going crazy like WTF GET FULLY HARD!!

Now that I thought about it...

Friday did an insane leg workout, then when out to a nightclub and went home with some broad until the next day, then basically did the same thing Saturday, and when Sunday came I guess by the time I got that latina on my bed my body had to of been shut off..

The next morning when she was already dressed I woke up with a rager (morning wood) but it was too late.

About the Viagra and Pills

I have a few of my boys that have them in a draw just in case. Yo'Mama Whats the dosage you take? My boy told me since I am 27 if I ever had a problem to take half of a 25mg and it will be ready to go in 30.

Hows your experience with it? I refuse to do it all the time but would be nice to know I have a few pills in a draw just in case this sh!t happens again.

Thanks men.

EDIT ADD

bukowski_merit Was not wearing a condom yet at that point. It was 3/4 hard. The point where its still too soft to stick it in, I just needed a little more blood flow and I would of been ready...really frustrated me.

I think half of a 25mg may do it. Taking the whole 25mg is fine too, it's still not a high dose. That worked very well for me the first time I took it. Probably if you have it to hand, you'll end up not needing it because you won't feel so anxious about not being able to get sufficiently hard.

I HATE the 3/4 erections. Just hard enough to make a futile attempt to stick it in, not hard enough to actually get it in! With the Viagra you should get rock hard, even with a condom. You might notice some annoying side effects - palpitations, stuffy nose, possibly a headache but don't worry too much about these.

Yo'Mama · Jul 22, 2014

Double Post

playa99 · Jul 22, 2014

It happens to us all mate... It happens to us all!

Put it down to experience and move on, make sure your rested, eating right and hydrated.

Bible_Belt · Jul 22, 2014

Generic liquid viagra is 1/10th the price of the pills.

Dreesy · Jul 22, 2014

I had this happen recently and I was really disappointed in myself. I guarantee the copious drinks and weed beforehand didn't help the situation.

So now that we know how to fix things up (No fap, diet, sleep, Citrulline etc), how do you go about damage control when it actually happens? How do you stop it from being a major attraction killer?

spiegel549 · Jul 22, 2014

Thanks for the responses guys. I had a Tinder date last night which ended in a smash. ZERO PROBLEMS, was actually hard as a rock. I broke it down..

-Had very little energy for a long party weekend
-Realized I was somewhat over thinking the situation because the Latina was fine as hell.

Solution

Got some really good sleep. Gonna cut back big time on the beating off, get my diet back in order since I am in the gym everyday.

I am going to buy a few blue pills from my buddy and leave them in my draw as an emergency.

It actually is a real good MENTAL reassurance knowing you have a blue pill in the draw JUST in case.

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