Tenacity
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So I'm making this post for myself and maybe even for others here who might be going through the same thing. The question is, how do you guys handle people (individuals or groups) who say things about you to get a "rise" out of you in some form?
I guess the "masculine" answer is to not argue back and forth with them, you hear this a lot when women come out and say ANYTHING they want about a guy just because they are upset with him, such as:
"Well, I never liked you anyway!"
"Well, I always thought your dyck was little!"
"Well, I never thought you were that cute anyway!"
"Well, I think you are gay!"
As if, if you thought this way the entire time chick why in the hell did you give me your number in the first place, and why were you fvcking me in the first place? But of course, you are told the "masculine" way of handling it is to just LET A WOMAN TALK and don't argue back with her.
I wanted to see how do you guys handle situations like this? Most of the time when shyt like this happens I tend to say F-Off and move on, without really going back and forth. But the issue is this though. Usually when you ignore a person or a GROUP of people like this thinking if I ignore them they will stop, they usually DON'T stop. Instead, they get louder with whatever they are saying. They then will take the crap to other people who might not truly know you yet or know you as much, and those people would tend to believe what the person or the group is saying about you and either bring it up to you when they see you, or begin to resemble the same attitude towards you that the individual or the group has, or if they want to "crack jokes" they will crack jokes and start a ROASTING session about the fact that some chick you were just dating is running around saying you are "gay" with a "little dyck" :yawn:. Of course if it's a roast session that will result, it won't just occur for 5 minutes, no it will go on and on for days, which further ENCOURAGES the chick that did it to not only continue doing it, but know that if another guy pisses her off she can get people to do the same form of societal humiliation to him.
So in these cases, it's as if you are in a lose-lose. If you address it, you are being a b*tch by going back and forth with people, if you don't address it, you are being a b*tch as people will tend to BELIEVE what's being said because they will say, "Well, I don't see him denying it so it most be true!"
How do you guys handle situations like this without going bat shyt crazy?
I guess the "masculine" answer is to not argue back and forth with them, you hear this a lot when women come out and say ANYTHING they want about a guy just because they are upset with him, such as:
"Well, I never liked you anyway!"
"Well, I always thought your dyck was little!"
"Well, I never thought you were that cute anyway!"
"Well, I think you are gay!"
As if, if you thought this way the entire time chick why in the hell did you give me your number in the first place, and why were you fvcking me in the first place? But of course, you are told the "masculine" way of handling it is to just LET A WOMAN TALK and don't argue back with her.
I wanted to see how do you guys handle situations like this? Most of the time when shyt like this happens I tend to say F-Off and move on, without really going back and forth. But the issue is this though. Usually when you ignore a person or a GROUP of people like this thinking if I ignore them they will stop, they usually DON'T stop. Instead, they get louder with whatever they are saying. They then will take the crap to other people who might not truly know you yet or know you as much, and those people would tend to believe what the person or the group is saying about you and either bring it up to you when they see you, or begin to resemble the same attitude towards you that the individual or the group has, or if they want to "crack jokes" they will crack jokes and start a ROASTING session about the fact that some chick you were just dating is running around saying you are "gay" with a "little dyck" :yawn:. Of course if it's a roast session that will result, it won't just occur for 5 minutes, no it will go on and on for days, which further ENCOURAGES the chick that did it to not only continue doing it, but know that if another guy pisses her off she can get people to do the same form of societal humiliation to him.
So in these cases, it's as if you are in a lose-lose. If you address it, you are being a b*tch by going back and forth with people, if you don't address it, you are being a b*tch as people will tend to BELIEVE what's being said because they will say, "Well, I don't see him denying it so it most be true!"
How do you guys handle situations like this without going bat shyt crazy?