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So I wanted to introduce myself to the board, I have been reading here for awhile and reading a lot of the Pook related articles, etc. I was going to start some sort of Journal on here to follow and update my progress, but before I did I wanted to let you guys know what some of my goals were and what issues I've been running into.
A little about me, I'm African American and 30 years old. I work in Finance with an MBA already done, and I'll soon be a Licensed CPA after I pass all four parts of the exam. I have a great car, live in a great apartment, etc.
I'm not on the beginning stages of "game" or anything like that, I have no issues going up to a GROUP of women and becoming the life of the party, getting numbers, one night stands, etc.
But I'm trying to get to a point of settling down and the type of chick I want is:
- Looks solid (maybe a 7 at least)
- No kids
- Has her finances together so she doesn't try to lean on me for those things
- One that loves me with high interest
What I keep getting as far as women that I get to move forward in terms of relationships, dates, sex, etc. are those that will fall in one of these categories:
1.) Looks Good and Good Interest Level
These chicks look GOOD or GOOD ENOUGH (to my standards) but have either kids and/or her finances aren't together, but her interest is pretty high.
2.) Finances Together and Good Interest Level
These chicks would have their finances together without kids but not be as attractive in the looks category, but her interest is pretty high.
3.) Looks Good and Finances Together, but Poor Interest
Then I'll find a chick that looks good or looks good enough, no kids, with her finances together, but her interest level is piss poor in terms of I will get her number but after talking on the phone/texting for a while it just doesn't move forward. Or after doing our little outing or date, it doesn't move forward.
I was thinking if perhaps my "standards" are too high and I should perhaps settle for a category 1 or 2 girl? What do you guys think? Also what do you guys recommend on what might be the reason why I'm not finding many women that have all of these four things in total?
I know I'm new to the forum, but I will be developing perhaps a Journal to post field reports, etc.
A little about me, I'm African American and 30 years old. I work in Finance with an MBA already done, and I'll soon be a Licensed CPA after I pass all four parts of the exam. I have a great car, live in a great apartment, etc.
I'm not on the beginning stages of "game" or anything like that, I have no issues going up to a GROUP of women and becoming the life of the party, getting numbers, one night stands, etc.
But I'm trying to get to a point of settling down and the type of chick I want is:
- Looks solid (maybe a 7 at least)
- No kids
- Has her finances together so she doesn't try to lean on me for those things
- One that loves me with high interest
What I keep getting as far as women that I get to move forward in terms of relationships, dates, sex, etc. are those that will fall in one of these categories:
1.) Looks Good and Good Interest Level
These chicks look GOOD or GOOD ENOUGH (to my standards) but have either kids and/or her finances aren't together, but her interest is pretty high.
2.) Finances Together and Good Interest Level
These chicks would have their finances together without kids but not be as attractive in the looks category, but her interest is pretty high.
3.) Looks Good and Finances Together, but Poor Interest
Then I'll find a chick that looks good or looks good enough, no kids, with her finances together, but her interest level is piss poor in terms of I will get her number but after talking on the phone/texting for a while it just doesn't move forward. Or after doing our little outing or date, it doesn't move forward.
I was thinking if perhaps my "standards" are too high and I should perhaps settle for a category 1 or 2 girl? What do you guys think? Also what do you guys recommend on what might be the reason why I'm not finding many women that have all of these four things in total?
I know I'm new to the forum, but I will be developing perhaps a Journal to post field reports, etc.