backbreaker
Master Don Juan
I had an interesting conversation today. More like a confrontation. So I'm at eating lunch with my friend girl, she's a client of mine as well and we did some stuff for her site and we decided to grab a bite to eat to go over the stuff and just to eat lunch and hang out.
Anyway, so we are talking and she mentions to me that she got her income tax money and i'm like well what are you going to spend it on. She says well i am using it to pay for sugary for my nose. Now I don't really see anything wrong with her nose, it fits her body, and I tell her.. my exact words were
"seriously.. i don't see anything wrong with your nose, why would you want to fix it? your forehead on the other hand, you need to find a forehead reduction specialist" girl has a serious forehead lol. There is some high level **** going on inside that cranium lol. But **** I got a big ass forehead lol.
So she gets all defensive and now she is all sad and **** and i'm like look girl i would not joke with you like that if i didn't think you were pretty in the first place. The fact that you should have high self esteem in the first place is why i can joke with you lik ethat
but here is the thing. she doesn't have high self esteem. it's not low. but it's not really all that high.
My point being.. the above.. i don't even try to do that. that's not me hitting on her. that's me being backbreaker; the trained assassin.
It's like when I am dealing with a pretty woman in a casual setting my default instinct is to neg hit.
It's like, on some level, i expect her to understand that the fact that i'm negging you is a compliment in itself. I don't neg women who look like **** lol why make their lives worse lol.
But I mean, women have insecurities as well. This girl hates her nose. Hates her forehead. Hates the fact that she's not rail thin.. How much sense does it make as a dating practice to come in and play on her insecurities as a dating practice, and to the women that this actually works with, are they even worth the effort?
I mean, even with my wife, over the years we have a report and I defiantly have thicker skin than she does. IF I make a wise crack about her being really tall or just in general she gets really pissy, not mad but it changes her mood. she doesn't like it.
Just how prudent of a dating strategy is neg hitting? Even the girls that it works on, are these girls you want?
Neg hits work on the assumption that a woman has high self esteem and you are to knock it down, but why do we assume women have high self esteem in the first place? beucase we want to **** them lol? even if they do have high self esteem why would i want to lower it as a dating strategy?
I'm curious to hear your opinions
Anyway, so we are talking and she mentions to me that she got her income tax money and i'm like well what are you going to spend it on. She says well i am using it to pay for sugary for my nose. Now I don't really see anything wrong with her nose, it fits her body, and I tell her.. my exact words were
"seriously.. i don't see anything wrong with your nose, why would you want to fix it? your forehead on the other hand, you need to find a forehead reduction specialist" girl has a serious forehead lol. There is some high level **** going on inside that cranium lol. But **** I got a big ass forehead lol.
So she gets all defensive and now she is all sad and **** and i'm like look girl i would not joke with you like that if i didn't think you were pretty in the first place. The fact that you should have high self esteem in the first place is why i can joke with you lik ethat
but here is the thing. she doesn't have high self esteem. it's not low. but it's not really all that high.
My point being.. the above.. i don't even try to do that. that's not me hitting on her. that's me being backbreaker; the trained assassin.
It's like when I am dealing with a pretty woman in a casual setting my default instinct is to neg hit.
It's like, on some level, i expect her to understand that the fact that i'm negging you is a compliment in itself. I don't neg women who look like **** lol why make their lives worse lol.
But I mean, women have insecurities as well. This girl hates her nose. Hates her forehead. Hates the fact that she's not rail thin.. How much sense does it make as a dating practice to come in and play on her insecurities as a dating practice, and to the women that this actually works with, are they even worth the effort?
I mean, even with my wife, over the years we have a report and I defiantly have thicker skin than she does. IF I make a wise crack about her being really tall or just in general she gets really pissy, not mad but it changes her mood. she doesn't like it.
Just how prudent of a dating strategy is neg hitting? Even the girls that it works on, are these girls you want?
Neg hits work on the assumption that a woman has high self esteem and you are to knock it down, but why do we assume women have high self esteem in the first place? beucase we want to **** them lol? even if they do have high self esteem why would i want to lower it as a dating strategy?
I'm curious to hear your opinions