So I am in LTR mode right now, but it is a distance relationship and while her interest level is high and we bang everytime we meet, I see some red flags (high maintenance, nags me) and I don't know if it will work out. She has valid reasons not to join me in my city for the moment (no work for her here and she needs the cash for her custody battle).
Morality of "cheating" aside, I am tempted to bang an old plate, who I have gone NC on for about 6 weeks now and have not seen for over 2 months. If I do I'd make sure my LTR girl never knows.
I'm concerned that:
a) the old plate could create problems down the line (yes I pretended there could be a relationship, but didn't promise there would be, to keep the sex going), especially if LTR and I end up living together
b) I don't have a "cover story" to explain my 2 month disappearance from the old plate
I want to know when the window for b) elapses, I think if it doesn't work out with LTR and I contact the old plate after 6 months absence for example it would be too late? With b) maybe the truth is the best cover story - essentially "I found a better woman and went with her, you are plan B" - maybe it would make her go crazier for me lol.
Yes I know we can always find new plates but its good to have one ready-made if it comes to that right?
Morality of "cheating" aside, I am tempted to bang an old plate, who I have gone NC on for about 6 weeks now and have not seen for over 2 months. If I do I'd make sure my LTR girl never knows.
I'm concerned that:
a) the old plate could create problems down the line (yes I pretended there could be a relationship, but didn't promise there would be, to keep the sex going), especially if LTR and I end up living together
b) I don't have a "cover story" to explain my 2 month disappearance from the old plate
I want to know when the window for b) elapses, I think if it doesn't work out with LTR and I contact the old plate after 6 months absence for example it would be too late? With b) maybe the truth is the best cover story - essentially "I found a better woman and went with her, you are plan B" - maybe it would make her go crazier for me lol.
Yes I know we can always find new plates but its good to have one ready-made if it comes to that right?