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why would a girl wanna meet my mom so soon?

eastside562

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We went on 1 date and had a great time. I joked and told her my mom would love her. So on our second date she is pickin me up but wants to meet my mom! Why would she wanna do that?
 

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Relax bro. No need to blow up the forum with this basic @ss sh!t. Tell her she aint home and be done w it.
 

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She probably wants to meet your mom because she has such high interest in you, she wants to become 'part of the family'.

As posted, relax. You control the pace with her. Go on the second date, escalate to your own comfort. Move forward with her, while continuing to screen her for compatibility.

Have fun man. It's exciting to start something with a new gal who's interest is off the charts. Too many gals play games from the beginning.
 

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I would be leary of girls who want to push the relationship along at such a quick pace(meeting mom on 2nd date). Usually they end up having cluster B issues. Its her way of sucking you in so you sign on the dotted line before you even know what you've got. They can only suppress the crazy so long. Their goal is to get you hooked early so its harder to leave when her crazy does come out. Its the same with girls that want to move in so quickly.

Proceed with caution.
 

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This a Test of Excremental Fortitude

eastside562 said:
We are going out again this week for a second date she also wants to meet my mom already.
Tell her that people in Hell want ice water. This is test of excremental fortitude, dude.

http://www.stoplosingwomen.com/page/14/

Episode 16: Stop Introducing Her to Your Friends So Soon

http://www.stoplosingwomen.com/page/13/

Episode 30: Stop Making Her The Girlfriend Too Soon

http://www.stoplosingwomen.com/page/10/

Episode 61: Stop Inviting Her to do Holiday Stuff


Don't let the titles fool you, these topics pertain to you. Just letting you know, I would'n't introduce random chicks to my mother. I would have to have been in an exclusive relationship with a chick for a minimum of six months before she was granted that privilege.

eastside562 said:
Question how often am i sappose to text her after first date? She would usually initiate contact first. We already planned the second date but for 2 days we havent talk. Should i wait till the day before date to initiate contact or just text?
http://www.stoplosingwomen.com/page/15/

Episode 10: Stop Contacting Her Between Dates

http://www.stoplosingwomen.com/page/8/

Episode 72: Stop Calling to Re-Confirm Dates

http://www.stoplosingwomen.com/page/6/

Episode 96: Stop Being Afraid She’ll Forget You


Dude, I can tell you from personal experience, that if she likes you and have enjoyed your company, she doesn't need to be reminded of your date, and she's looking forward to it more than you.
 

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Mr.Positive said:
She probably wants to meet your mom because she has such high interest in you, she wants to become 'part of the family'.

As posted, relax. You control the pace with her. Go on the second date, escalate to your own comfort. Move forward with her, while continuing to screen her for compatibility.

Have fun man. It's exciting to start something with a new gal who's interest is off the charts. Too many gals play games from the beginning.
This indeed, enjoy :up:
 
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