she text me after a month of no contact

Went out with her 2 times in a month time period. We hardly talk and i havent been able to kiss her so i stopped talking to her and moved on to talk to someone ealse. I didnt initiate nc i just forgot about her. month later she texted me up and wants to meet this weekend. I dont know of we are dayting or not but i did remember she gave an exampke of a friend that annoys her and said if we were friends and you did that it would annoy her.

Relax.

take a deep breath, you've got another plate to spin

She may just be stroking her own ego by seeing if you will jump through hoops to see her again. Don't be surprised if she flakes. If she doesn't but, congratulations - you are now spinning plates and on your way as a DJ.

If you see her a friend material then be friends, hang out. Her friends may open doors ;-) so this could be a strategy.
If you cant do with the hassle then red-card her.