Ok so I started a relationship with a 20 year old back in December. She gets pregnant an she already has a 2 year old son. well she lives in a trailer park in portage In with her mom sister stepdad and brother. I have cheated on her but we were talking about getting back together I was going to my 2 year olds son birthday party an she wanted me to get her. Then said if we get back together her mom will put her out I told her fine then don't. Then she wanted me to get her an I was about then she flipped an said no I don't want to my life is set here I said shedidn't have to bbut why the change of heart. So I text her mother asking her why is she controlling her like that an I get cussed out by this girl Lakendra is her name. Long story short I feel they don't want me in this babies life an I'm a horrible boyfriend but good with kids actually. I have the whole conversation screen snapped an can show anyone. She's been like this bipolar for weeks I honestly think they are (her parents) racist and controlling. My mom says she wanted me away from my son's party an my ex so she played a game.Should I take her for paternity I no I should leave them alone but will she change and grow up They live in a two bedroom trailer with 6 people. Does her family sound racist I was with her for months never stepped in their house once. This is all upsetting to me. My mom says I have a bad track record with these kinds of girls