Question for guys with girlfriends

Well it's that time of the year. Weather is getting hotter and girls feel the need to show more and more skin.

My girlfriend came back from shopping with her friends, really excited. She wanted to show me these new shorts she bought. So she tries them on and yes...she looks super hot, but a part of me thinks they're a little inappropriate for a girl with a bf.

It's hard to tell if I'm being insecure or if this is a legitimate grievance because the line between slvt and everyday girl is so blurred these days.

They look something like this and this except they might even show a little bit more a$$ since she has a nice round one which most "skinny girl" shorts won't fully accomodate.

How do you guys react when your girl wears revealing clothes?

Be proud, tell yo girl she looks smokin' hot, f*ck her good and spin plates.

TheGambino said:

Be proud, tell yo girl she looks smokin' hot, f*ck her good and spin plates.

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How can I spin plates when I have a gf...wtf...

Lol I always spin even if Im seeing a girl for a long period, never facebook status 'relationship' I spin plates even with a girl that committed to me. When I meet a high quality women that makes me happy everyday, that motivates me and I want children with then I might lay down bro. Live your life man, can't commit to 1 girl.

I didnt say you have to follow my lead, do whatever you feel good with your girl man, it's just me. And the clothes be happy for her, be confident no1 can take your girl, your a DJ.

She ain't the right girl for you if you need to change her.

Lastly don't believe everything you read here. Be who you are and what you believe in first and foremost.

Exodus

They're just shorts. Even if they were longer if she has an ass it's still going to show. Give her props for staying sexy for you.

lol BFs and husbands don't matter... eventually she will F other dudes where you know it or not... so just be glad she is with you and Fing you for now cause eventually she will take her PU$$Y and move on..lol....

oh and don't be an old insecure prude.. if she is dressing sexy be glad and enjoy it

Let her dress as slvtty as she wants. It will only make other guys even more jealous like "Damn...I can't believe he's actually fvcking her. What a lucky bastard".

DO NOT ACT INSECURE. Your attitude should be like it's no big deal. You've even had girlfriends in the past that have dressed way sluttier than that. Just be cool.

However, if it bothers you, what you want to do is withdraw attention anytime she wears it. Not in a childish way, mind you.

TheGambino said:

Be proud, tell yo girl she looks smokin' hot, f*ck her good and spin plates.

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This. Except spinning plates, I usually just talk to other girls but obviously don't do anything.

mmm personally i don't think its a big deal

she was excited to show you so therefore i would say she's happy with you leave her enjoy the attention and fu*k her good behind closed doors

This guy wanted to dump his girlfriend twice in a month for being overweight and for saying she was too tired to have sex. You're insecure. Who cares what she's wearing as long as you're the one banging when the other dudes are looking.

I'm with Bingo, I don't think it's a big deal.
She wants to look good just like you want to look good.
What do you want her to do, dress in a shawl?

You can't really say anything because if you bring up the fact that you dont like her wearing short shorts that show her azz your going to be labeled A) Insecure & B) Controlling. If you look past it and let her dress how she wants she A) Gets the attention from other guys that makes her feel sexy and desirable & B) If she's hot... No doubt will she be getting approached by lots of other guys but thats normal, The bad news is if another guy comes along that shows more "Value" than you, then well... sh*t could get ugly quick and what i mean by that is, she will "think" in her little mind, she can do better than you, thus begin acting b*tchy. So overall.... In modern society when it comes to things like this, Its Head's she wins and Tails you lose.

This is one of the biggest problems with modern relationships between Men and Women. If a man asks his girlfriend/wife to do something or he does not approve of a certain thing then in most cases, He will be looked down upon from almost everyone and be called insensitive, Controlling, Insecure, Smothering, An azzhole..etc you name it but if a girlfriend/wife asks you to do something or she doesnt approve of you doing/wearing something then, You dont really care about her feelings and respect her or value her and therefore if she cheats on you, It was because you did not show her love by respecting her wishes and YOUR the creep. Haha, funny how its so one sided. Its massive bullsh!t but thats how things are seen now a days and i can only imagine it getting worse.

In your case OP, i would recommend just not saying anything because shes going to wear it anyway but you make sure you bang her good and if she's dressed a bit slutty, thats how you treat her. Plus always make sure your lookin good too that way she knows other woman desire you.

I honestly don't know how or why guys play keeps wit girls under the age of 23. She wouldn't dress like that if she knew she couldn't do better than you. No fear of losing you, and complacency is setting in.

My experience is that young girls always ask me if I 'like' a certain dress when they know it may be too daring. They play it safe. Your girl isn't. Something may be lacking or she's just trying to keep up with her horring friends.

HoneyHitter said:

I honestly don't know how or why guys play keeps wit girls under the age of 23. She wouldn't dress like that if she knew she couldn't do better than you. No fear of losing you, and complacency is setting in.

My experience is that young girls always ask me if I 'like' a certain dress when they know it may be too daring. They play it safe. Your girl isn't. Something may be lacking or she's just trying to keep up with her horring friends.

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Plus its slutty season with the summer coming up. The panties get a bit extra damp in the nice weather.

goldengoose said:

This guy wanted to dump his girlfriend twice in a month for being overweight and for saying she was too tired to have sex. You're insecure. Who cares what she's wearing as long as you're the one banging when the other dudes are looking.

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This.

First she wasnt staying attractive enough for OP, now op is upset shes trying to show off her attractiveness for him. They are simply shorts.

Consider yourself lucky. At least she's not wearing granny panties. If my girl dressed really hot I would show her off with pride.

Looking at this thread makes me wish I had s girlfriend, which is why I'm working with David Wygant lately, he says I'm improving with approaches and conversation in terms of voice tone and sounding better relaxed, its just now a matter of meeting women in other places besides the main place I've been meeting women at now

JaegerPilot217 said:

Looking at this thread makes me wish I had s girlfriend, which is why I'm working with David Wygant lately, he says I'm improving with approaches and conversation in terms of voice tone and sounding better relaxed, its just now a matter of meeting women in other places besides the main place I've been meeting women at now

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Damn dude, you shouldn't have to pay anyone to become a DJ.

As everything in life your abilities to overcome and achieve your aspirations fully on your own is an exhilarating experience, not to be decimated by paying anyone to help you get women.

Be well

Exodus

GotED? said:

Damn dude, you shouldn't have to pay anyone to become a DJ.

As everything in life your abilities to overcome and achieve your aspirations fully on your own is an exhilarating experience, not to be decimated by paying anyone to help you get women.

Be well

Exodus

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If you have the means to afford it and it's worth it to you to cut the learning curve, why not pay? I'm sure it's a lot easier to get 1-on-1 guidance from a pro than to deal with trolls posting to this forum (not that everyone is a troll, but some advice given here is pretty useless).