MidnightCity said:
this should be enough for you not to care
men insist on projecting the characteristics of their sexuality onto women. just because you would feel betrayed if it was the other way around doesnt mean women would react the same.
in fact its quite the opposite.
when i used to live in an apartment complex before i met all my neighbors i would bring women home all the time. do you think the cute 20somethings that lived in the building would look at me and say
"there goes a gentle nice guy, maybe i can get his attention and he can come set up my computer for me one day"
or
"wow. he seems *interesting*. wouldnt mind getting to know him"
the only thing that women think when they know you have it takes to be intimate with other women is that you have some kind of value.
women want men that other women want to fukc
apples and oranges is my opinion on this. the only way this would be weird is if you make it weird. you should have a far more casual attitude about this.
ok you had sex with the cute neighbor. so what? the more lax about it you are the more she will be too and might even be willing to be available for future encounters with no strings and frills.
I would not feel betrayed in the least and I'm not projecting.
When I did it with the girl upstairs, nothing bad happened.
Bringing girls home, of course, isn't a problem. Bringing plates home and bumping into someone you're banging in the hallway right outside your door..could be.
My thing is, if I do it with the girl that lives next door, it's a bit too close for comfort. What if she gets attached and start spying me, listening on the other side of the wall to see if I have other company, f.e. and/or goes psycho on me ? I wouldn't even feel comfortable in my own home.
That's why most advise against it, I guess. But like someone else said above, I think I know what I'm going to do
