I have a couple females that i used to date. We were sexually active until they moved away. Now they want to continue talking to me as if they lived nearby. They want to call me almost everyday as if we are still dating. They tell me about their day and the new guys in their life. When i tell them i dont want to talk to them anymore becuz i am not interested in a LDR, they start to cry and say that i am not a good friend. These are girls that were my girlfriends and we used to f**k.
Its like women need male emotional support so badly that they will hold on to you even if they are states away. They have to talk to you about ALL their problems including their romantic ones. I tell them that its not fair to me. I do not want to talk to them anymore becuz they are so far away. I especially dont want to talk to them if they are telling me about ex boyfriends etc. Thirdly i dont want to talk to them anymore becuz i cant have sex with them due to logistics. Somehow i am a bad guy for this. They say that i should be a friend first and a lover second? WTF! What are you thoughts?
Its like women need male emotional support so badly that they will hold on to you even if they are states away. They have to talk to you about ALL their problems including their romantic ones. I tell them that its not fair to me. I do not want to talk to them anymore becuz they are so far away. I especially dont want to talk to them if they are telling me about ex boyfriends etc. Thirdly i dont want to talk to them anymore becuz i cant have sex with them due to logistics. Somehow i am a bad guy for this. They say that i should be a friend first and a lover second? WTF! What are you thoughts?