This is best seen when you have caught a women red handed. Or during big arguments where it’s clear that she’s in the wrong but keeps on denying it. But you can also see it when they need some guy to play the white knight or when they need someone to help them out.
In this post the it’s more about manipulation during a big fights or argument.
So the first thing to do when confronting women and not get manipulated is to
Keep your distance as much as possible.
If possible do it over the Phone or via Text when you are not living together.
Why? Because women are better at manipulating you when you are near them. Their innocent and helpless body language, tears, touch, etc all these things will be used to soften you up and ultimately make you fall for their manipulation tactics.
Male nature is to protect women and children and women make use of this when they are in trouble. Ever notice during big arguments a woman will tell you she wants to talk to you in person, they need to see you, They don't want to discuss over text or phone etc. This is because you're frame is stronger and you are thinking more logically using these methods of communication. They want talk in person so they can take advantage of your natural instinct to help the weak and helpless. (Consciously or unconsciously)
Another point to watch out for is their tendency to avoid the specific incident you are confronting them about. They will use words like "every time ", "everything I do", "Always", " Never" etc
They will defer your attention using phrases like. "You know me I would never do that" , " I have always taken care of you", "You always accusing me", "you never listen" , "you don't love me" etc
These are all tactics to let you feel like you are the bully and she's an innocent victim who never did anything wrong. focus on what they did,not their words.
So to summarize
- Keep your distance and keep it short! the longer you talk the weaker your frame becomes
- Always keep your focus on the issue at hand.
In this post the it’s more about manipulation during a big fights or argument.
So the first thing to do when confronting women and not get manipulated is to
Keep your distance as much as possible.
If possible do it over the Phone or via Text when you are not living together.
Why? Because women are better at manipulating you when you are near them. Their innocent and helpless body language, tears, touch, etc all these things will be used to soften you up and ultimately make you fall for their manipulation tactics.
Male nature is to protect women and children and women make use of this when they are in trouble. Ever notice during big arguments a woman will tell you she wants to talk to you in person, they need to see you, They don't want to discuss over text or phone etc. This is because you're frame is stronger and you are thinking more logically using these methods of communication. They want talk in person so they can take advantage of your natural instinct to help the weak and helpless. (Consciously or unconsciously)
Another point to watch out for is their tendency to avoid the specific incident you are confronting them about. They will use words like "every time ", "everything I do", "Always", " Never" etc
They will defer your attention using phrases like. "You know me I would never do that" , " I have always taken care of you", "You always accusing me", "you never listen" , "you don't love me" etc
These are all tactics to let you feel like you are the bully and she's an innocent victim who never did anything wrong. focus on what they did,not their words.
So to summarize
- Keep your distance and keep it short! the longer you talk the weaker your frame becomes
- Always keep your focus on the issue at hand.