teebear
Don Juan
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I think I've done pretty well, fellas.
I've met a woman whom for most of my life I would have considered to be out of my league. I'm not putting her on a pedestal; she's human just like everybody else and probably does things that will drive me crazy one day but in the meantime I'm delighted to be with her.
In my eyes, she's a "9" and my friends think that she is hot which is nice of course - but not necessary. I'm proud to be seen with her in public. She's always one of the most attractive women in the room regardless of where we go. She's a little bit taller than me but it doesn't seem to bother her and it doesn't bother me. In fact, I told her that she could wear heels anytime that she wanted to and it wouldn't phase me one bit. She says that it was one of the most confident things that a man has ever said to her. Shorter men - take note!!
She's intelligent, educated, and successful (a lawyer) and earns nearly double what I do. She has no debt other than a few years left on her mortgage. She has no kids (though she likes them) and has never been married. She's generous, funny, and great in bed. We have so many things in common it's almost scary. I'm proud of her success but I make decent money too and can carry my own weight. I'm not gonna lie though - it's fun to date a woman who makes six figures.
I could go on but you get the idea. I don't want to give the impression that she IS out of my league - she's a reflection of me and what I have done to become a better man in the past year. She acts more impressed with me than I am with her - and that says a LOT. I want this to be more of a "build it and they will come" kind of thread than a self-congratulatory one.
So I'm giving up spinning plates to see where this leads. Her SMV is off the charts compared to the women that I usually meet. I'm well aware of oneitis and other AFC type behaviour which is why the caveat in the thread title exists. If it doesn't work out I'm not going to regress and lower my standards - I have proven to myself that I am worthy and deserve high SMV women.
The message that I want to get across to all of you is one of hope: make yourself a better, more attractive man and you WILL attract a better calibre of woman.
I've met a woman whom for most of my life I would have considered to be out of my league. I'm not putting her on a pedestal; she's human just like everybody else and probably does things that will drive me crazy one day but in the meantime I'm delighted to be with her.
In my eyes, she's a "9" and my friends think that she is hot which is nice of course - but not necessary. I'm proud to be seen with her in public. She's always one of the most attractive women in the room regardless of where we go. She's a little bit taller than me but it doesn't seem to bother her and it doesn't bother me. In fact, I told her that she could wear heels anytime that she wanted to and it wouldn't phase me one bit. She says that it was one of the most confident things that a man has ever said to her. Shorter men - take note!!
She's intelligent, educated, and successful (a lawyer) and earns nearly double what I do. She has no debt other than a few years left on her mortgage. She has no kids (though she likes them) and has never been married. She's generous, funny, and great in bed. We have so many things in common it's almost scary. I'm proud of her success but I make decent money too and can carry my own weight. I'm not gonna lie though - it's fun to date a woman who makes six figures.
I could go on but you get the idea. I don't want to give the impression that she IS out of my league - she's a reflection of me and what I have done to become a better man in the past year. She acts more impressed with me than I am with her - and that says a LOT. I want this to be more of a "build it and they will come" kind of thread than a self-congratulatory one.
So I'm giving up spinning plates to see where this leads. Her SMV is off the charts compared to the women that I usually meet. I'm well aware of oneitis and other AFC type behaviour which is why the caveat in the thread title exists. If it doesn't work out I'm not going to regress and lower my standards - I have proven to myself that I am worthy and deserve high SMV women.
The message that I want to get across to all of you is one of hope: make yourself a better, more attractive man and you WILL attract a better calibre of woman.
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