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Cola's SMV scale. Determine your SMV with my system

cola

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Ok, so women aren't just looks based.
They take much more into consideration than we do.
With that being said, I created a SMV scale that factors in the main thing I think they look at.

Top score possible is 16.
Post your score, and feel free to critique. Lets go!
**You'll find this scale applies more to guys post college.

Yearly Income:
25,000 +1
50,000 +2
100,000 +3
500,000 +5
Below 25,000 -1

Residence
Have your own house +3
Have your own aparment +2
House or Apartment with roommate +1
Home with parents/relative -2

Social Circle

Know a few cool peeps +1
Well known, many friends/connections +2
Complete Loner -1

Aesthetics

Skinny + Average face +1
Muscular + Average face +2
Skinny + Above Average face +2
Muscular + Above average face +3
Fat/Look out of shape -3
Skinny Below average face -1
Muscular below average face +1

Personality

Extrovert +1
Introvert -1

Hobbies

Sports/Athletics +1
Thrillseeker +2
Musically Inclined +1
Art +1
I get off work and play video games, watch tv -1

Ok can't wait to see scores.

Im a 10 SMV based on my scale. Anything 8 or above is great, you should be a equal to most chicks..a perfect score would be damn near a celebrity so I think my scale makes sense



8 - average smv
9-11 above average smv
12-14 extremely high smv
15-16 you should be able to pull majority of single hbs
below 8:.. you have some self improvement to begin.


We should all be doing what we can to constantly improve SMV
 
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cola said:
Ok, so women aren't just looks based.
They take much more into consideration than we do.
With that being said, I created a SMV scale that factors in the main thing I think they look at.

Top score possible is 16.
Post your score, and feel free to critique. Lets go!
**You'll find this scale applies more to guys post college.

Yearly Income:
25,000 +1
50,000 +2
100,000 +3
500,000 +5
Below 25,000 -1

Residence
Have your own house +3
Have your own aparment +2
House or Apartment with roommate +1
Home with parents/relative -2

Social Circle

Know a few cool peeps +1
Well known, many friends/connections +2
Complete Loner -1

Aesthetics

Skinny + Average face +1
Muscular + Average face +2
Skinny + Above Average face +2
Muscular + Above average face +3
Fat/Look out of shape -3

Personality

Extrovert +1
Introvert -1

Hobbies

Sports/Athletics +1
Thrillseeker +2
Musically Inclined +1
Art +1
I get off work and play video games, watch tv -1

Ok can't wait to see scores.

Im a 10 SMV based on my scale.
Gotta start somewhere. This is a great stab at an initial approach. I found that many babes will be panties soaking if you have a nice car, a house and dress decently well. They won't care if you spend all your money to do so.
 

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lonewolf what the phuck did you just say man

i read it 19 times and im still just as clueless to its meaning as the first time
 
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thelonewolflegend said:
Im not 4 out of ten guy said 6.5 on here im fat but not obses looking
Get rid of the fat. I said so! For being on sosuave.net, none of us would overlook something so simple to take care of.
 

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daddy, you understand his statement? translate please?
 
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Alexandar said:
daddy, you understand his statement? translate please?
He said he is "fat" but not "obese". I asked him as per sosuave.net protocol to not even be able to say this. To get rid of the fat. There is just so MUCH SMV in gaining by getting rid of it. I believe being fat is a big excuse, a representation of laziness and procrastination.
 

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Yeah f#ck all that Internet beef stuff. This is a good thread and I want to see scores.

@Daddylonglegs
Feel free to add 2 points for a nice car. I didn't add car because say you live in NYC or London, Tokyo etc etc. A car wouldn't be neccissary because most use subway/trains because it's actually faster than driving.

Style is subjective. One chick may love your outfit, another will hate it.
 
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cola said:
Yeah f#ck all that Internet beef stuff. This is a good thread and I want to see scores.

@Daddylonglegs
Feel free to add 2 points for a nice car. I didn't add car because say you live in NYC or London, Tokyo etc etc. A car wouldn't be neccissary because most use subway/trains because it's actually faster than driving.

Style is subjective. One chick may love your outfit, another will hate it.
Agree on the car. I personally believe she should see your character, but real world results is such opulent items as a car, watch, house have huge impacts on the ladies.
 

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Income +1
Residence -2
Social Circle +2
Aesthetics +2
Personality -1
Hobbies +1

----> 3

I don't think the scale is real accurate, though. Being introverted and lacking money don't actually result in such heavy penalties.
 

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I think individual style is probably pretty important as well especially when you are talking about major cities with lots of competition. Also the amount of money you make is a dynamic variable since its all about competition and cost of living, if you live in Monaco 100k ain't ****.
 

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Obsidian said:
Income +1
Residence -2
Social Circle +2
Aesthetics +2
Personality -1
Hobbies +1

----> 3

I don't think the scale is real accurate, though. Being introverted and lacking money don't actually result in such heavy penalties.
I don't think i put heavy penalties for being introverted, and money plays a huge factor.. not because you are giving it to her but because it limits what you can do.

For instance, me and you have the same income score. Going to be hard for us to do certain things a richer dude could.. like take her skydiving or get a good seat at a sporting event
Even though you live at home, which is your biggest issue.
How you gonna invite her over?
I think my scale was accurate for you.
No offense

@ECB, yeah but who lives in Monaco on so suave?
Individual style varies once again depending on target... A hipster chick isnt going to like how a texas guy with cowboy hats and boots dresses..
A business casual chick isnt going to like the tshirt and sneaker guys clothes.. etc etc

@obsidian i reached my post limit so i edited this for your reply beneath..
I covered social skills with the social skills section
To a chick muscularity and athletisim are the same(see aesthetics)
Beauty and Aesthetics are synonomous. Its kind of ghey for a guy to call himself beautiful, no?

I listed income.
Bravery? Really?
And imagination? No comment :D

@obsidian 2x
Its not flashing money. How many times you going to take her to see movies/dinner? Thats boring.
I luv your posts bro. But your 29 at home with mom. Trust me, they care about that.. unless your parents are sick and you need to be close by.
Why are you home btw if not too personal?
You don't spend money at first because you may not like her, but once you see you like her nothing wrong with going on better dates.

At Pena with the mexican N
Unfortunately, in this game.. superficial stuff matters. If your fine with having one average looking girl, with an average house, 2.5 average kids with an average dad body .. (nothing wrong with that life if it fufills you) you are right.. SMV doesnt matter.
But thats not why most of you came here, right?

@skinnyguy money wasnt the only thing mentioned.


@new_hotness
How?
I'm no AFC. I do fine with girls. And i try not to masturbate mentally or physically. Your score must be low.
 

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Social Skills
Athleticism
Bravery
Imagination
Money
Beauty

These are the things women care about in a man, in that order.
 

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cola said:
For instance, me and you have the same income score. Going to be hard for us to do certain things a richer dude could.. like take her skydiving or get a good seat at a sporting event
Flashing money to win affection seems kind of fake. I do think that a man should be a breadwinner, but spending large amounts of money on dates just seems like a waste.

Even though you live at home, which is your biggest issue.
How you gonna invite her over?
So far, I don't think it's been much of an issue -- although it's impossible to read women's minds, so it might have factored into my last girl's mental process. I do know that my current girl doesn't seem to care one bit about it. However, that could be because she lives at home, too.
 

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I think people focus way too much on this stuff not enjoying who they are. I see people in all walks of life young, old, tall, short, skinny, fat, rich, poor doing what they feel having fun. No surprise that they have friends and get women similar in looks and status not worrying about the petty things.
 

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I see bums who have no money clean up with women. So SMV scale fails sometimes
 

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cola said:
Ok, so women aren't just looks based.
They take much more into consideration than we do.
With that being said, I created a SMV scale that factors in the main thing I think they look at.

Top score possible is 16.
Post your score, and feel free to critique. Lets go!
**You'll find this scale applies more to guys post college.

Yearly Income:
25,000 +1
50,000 +2
100,000 +3
500,000 +5
Below 25,000 -1

Residence
Have your own house +3
Have your own aparment +2
House or Apartment with roommate +1
Home with parents/relative -2

Social Circle

Know a few cool peeps +1
Well known, many friends/connections +2
Complete Loner -1

Aesthetics

Skinny + Average face +1
Muscular + Average face +2
Skinny + Above Average face +2
Muscular + Above average face +3
Fat/Look out of shape -3
Skinny Below average face -1
Muscular below average face +1

Personality

Extrovert +1
Introvert -1

Hobbies

Sports/Athletics +1
Thrillseeker +2
Musically Inclined +1
Art +1
I get off work and play video games, watch tv -1

Ok can't wait to see scores.

Im a 10 SMV based on my scale. Anything 8 or above is great, you should be a equal to most chicks..a perfect score would be damn near a celebrity so I think my scale makes sense



8 - average smv
9-12 above average smv
12-14 extremely high smv
14-16 you should be able to pull majority of single hbs
below 8 .. you have some self improvement to begin.


We should all be doing what we can to constantly improve SMV
AFC mental masturbation.
 
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