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Herkules

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Iam new here. And looking for some advice with my present relationship. A little about my self. Iam 34 years old, and have had quiet at few relationsships. And different girls so far.

But one year ago I met this girl. Which I happend to have really good chemistry with. A little about her, she is 27 years old, from Korea and was a virgin when I met her. I slept with her, and decided I needed see her more. She was travelling europe. So I joined her for some of her travel. Had amazing time together. And she ended her european stay be me again.

My problem is, I really like her. We have really good chemistry and have since the beginning had a highly sexual relationship. She was a virgin, so I have been able to teach her, which suits me well. But the thing is when she is not here. I wants other girls. And as we still have a long distance relationship its quiet a huge problem. Because I allso like to beeing honest when iam in a relationship, so not shure how to handle it. Should I stay faithfull, stay away from other girls or should i **** around, but just not tell her. Or maybe even see other girls and be honest about it. ;-) well looking for some advice. I want to keep the relationsship with her, but at the same dont like living in colibate for to long time.

About how the last year have been, I can tell. We meet in may, I take her virginity, I decide i want to see her again. She leaves me after only two nights. A couple of weeks go. I travel together with her for over 3 weeks. Quiet an adventoure and second date with her. We split again. She ends her european travel by me again. End of summer, she goes to Korea. I plan go visit her. We are seperated untill winter. I travel to korea by winter. And stay there for 3 month. We are together every day, again highly sexual relationship. Spring we split up again. Summer she comes back to me. We are together all summer, good time. So far I have been faithfull in my relationship with her, besides the summer were i met her. Were I had a couple of other girls.
 

Herkules

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Thanks for very clear answer. But overall this longdistance relationship have still been worth it. If we look at it sexually and how much time we have spend together. I have been with her for a little longer then a year now. And have been with her for 6 month in that period. 6 month were we have been really intimate and close. Travelling together and most of the time having sex several times a day. So compared to my old relationships, were my girl lived close to me, this relationship still have a very good statistic in pure time we are together and how many time we ****. So I know I have to fight for the relationship, I just have to find out how to do it. And one of my problems is my old habit of looking for new girls when i dont get sex for long. So what to do. Go full on, playing with new girls when she is away. Or be a good and faithful guy. Hmm any advice or other peoples expierences in similar situations.
 

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Now that she has lost her virginity, an alpha in Korea is going to give her a good time. And all the while, you are in a state of day dream about some girl in a distant land.
 

mangotot

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Maybe said:
An old man once told me: "You must get an ox from your own village".
Make of it what you will.
Over.
The old man works on emotions rather then practicality. If you can get a bigger stronger ox from the neighbouring village then it makes sense to so.
 

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You can't judge Korean women by American standards. Not exactly sure how it works in her culture/ family. SOME will be polluted by Western values, some won't. NOT sure what she wants from you, but USUALLY it involves a ticket to the US or the supposedly better life of the west.... IF that trips your trigger, go for it.
 

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Either cheat on her, or marry her and bring her to live with you. Just make up your mind. There is no such thing as an LDR. It's all denial.
 

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Everyone after your question have added it up for you. Listen to the folks here. Many know what they are talking about.
 
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