Anima
Don Juan
As one can tell from my last post, I've been putting a lot of thought into the meaning of being a DJ and related.
Nice Guys
Most think that a nice guy was once normal, but heartbroken later on, or some other event happened that changed the way their mind handled women. I, however, think that evolution is the answer. It may not make sense at first, but allow me to explain:
Humans are believed to be the most intelligent species on Earth. As such, it only makes sense that intelligence become a very important part in breeding; instead of traits that carry on the species and secure its existence, we prefer mates with a substantial intellect to promote the technological advancement of our species. If you're a strong believer of aliens like myself, then you may even say that this is something that happened to the Greys. Now how does this affect guys? Why doesn't it affect all guys? Well, like every evolutionary advance/change that has ever happened or will happen, it doesn't happen to everyone. It strikes up every now and then, but rarely ever if it isn't the dominate gene. And since most females don't choose the nice guy, the genes don't get passed on and rise to victory... initially; most nice guys who are just nice guys end up settling with some woman who wouldn't have gotten anything otherwise.
Attraction
Now onto the attraction part. What are each of the genders attracted to?
I believe that because of this evolution, men are attracted to things paired with intelligence--anything mental (e.g. emotions, ideas, etc.). Every nice guy that I know--including myself--has developed oneitis over a girl who he has spent a lot of time with--someone he has a mental connection with; someone he has made memories with, and maybe even someone who has been there for him and made him feel good. While every guy is still attracted to natural things (like a spine at a 45 degree angle, a big, fit ass, and a pretty face with childish features), that's only for physical mating and procreation. For a man to fall in love, I think there needs to be a mental connection. A nice guy uses his desire, whereas a DJ uses her desire.
Now women are a different story. I think that they are attracted to physicalities only. Sure, they may think that it's nice that a guy is smart or whatever, but do you know a girl that would choose Nikola Tesla over Zayn Malik? And even though Pook said that they display and retrieve desire through eyes, that's still creating emotion through physical attributes/actions.
I'm very tired and not sure if there's anything more I need to write, so feel free to ask questions and debate through the comments. I will gladly answer them as soon as possible.
Nice Guys
Most think that a nice guy was once normal, but heartbroken later on, or some other event happened that changed the way their mind handled women. I, however, think that evolution is the answer. It may not make sense at first, but allow me to explain:
Humans are believed to be the most intelligent species on Earth. As such, it only makes sense that intelligence become a very important part in breeding; instead of traits that carry on the species and secure its existence, we prefer mates with a substantial intellect to promote the technological advancement of our species. If you're a strong believer of aliens like myself, then you may even say that this is something that happened to the Greys. Now how does this affect guys? Why doesn't it affect all guys? Well, like every evolutionary advance/change that has ever happened or will happen, it doesn't happen to everyone. It strikes up every now and then, but rarely ever if it isn't the dominate gene. And since most females don't choose the nice guy, the genes don't get passed on and rise to victory... initially; most nice guys who are just nice guys end up settling with some woman who wouldn't have gotten anything otherwise.
Attraction
Now onto the attraction part. What are each of the genders attracted to?
I believe that because of this evolution, men are attracted to things paired with intelligence--anything mental (e.g. emotions, ideas, etc.). Every nice guy that I know--including myself--has developed oneitis over a girl who he has spent a lot of time with--someone he has a mental connection with; someone he has made memories with, and maybe even someone who has been there for him and made him feel good. While every guy is still attracted to natural things (like a spine at a 45 degree angle, a big, fit ass, and a pretty face with childish features), that's only for physical mating and procreation. For a man to fall in love, I think there needs to be a mental connection. A nice guy uses his desire, whereas a DJ uses her desire.
Now women are a different story. I think that they are attracted to physicalities only. Sure, they may think that it's nice that a guy is smart or whatever, but do you know a girl that would choose Nikola Tesla over Zayn Malik? And even though Pook said that they display and retrieve desire through eyes, that's still creating emotion through physical attributes/actions.
I'm very tired and not sure if there's anything more I need to write, so feel free to ask questions and debate through the comments. I will gladly answer them as soon as possible.