The moment you get pumped and dumped after you make a move

Who Dares Win · Mar 1, 2015

I was thinking about my teens years and observing some interactions in a club this last month and realized how a guy needs to get a woman to pump and dump her while a woman just need to stand up and leave or ignore a man after he makes his interest clear.

We pump and dump physically since sex is the value which we accept as payment while women do it psychologically since attention and ego are the values that pay them.

Can you recall in your memory an interaction with a woman where everything seemed to go smoothly untill you decided to make a move only to have her turn cold and retreat as if she got what she wanted?

You probably misunderstood her smiles and touches and strong eye contact as sign of interest till you decided to make it clear you wanted her...and the only thing you got was her moving into hard to get mode, a complete change from only few moments before.

Well what happened is the same exact thing that happened to that girl you showered with compliments, attention and kino only to turn cold and aloof after you banged her.

The same moment you exposed yourself thinking the deal was closed, she got what she wanted from you and she no longer needed to make an effort to get your attention and the ego boost coming from you and dropping you.

All this concepts connects to the confirmation of self worth, while we check the box once we stick it inside, they can check it once they get a guy to invited them for a date or a drink.

Again with the concept that the power they have over us is the power we give them, hardly she can pump and dump you or reject you if you dont make a clear move first.

Trunks · Mar 1, 2015

Right on. Ironically, this is why I often try to bang them quickly lol. Seems like everything about "game" is really just doing the things women normally do during dating. All the more reason not to care if they think you are misleading or manipulative.

logicallefty · Mar 1, 2015

Very true. And relates to past posts I have made about men needing/wanting sex too much.

We must find a way, as a male collective, to not need and/or want sex as much. There are a lot of ways to do this, none of which are likely to be implemented wide scale and long term: more porn and spanking the monkey, more h00kers, more plates and ONSs with women who are far below what we want like the HB 1-4s which leaves the HB 5s-10s having to work harder for d|ck. Or some drug or natural remedy that we all take that lowers sex drive. I GUARANTEE you guys if this could be accomplished on a large scale, it wouldn't just change GAME, it would change the world as we know it. Women would be back at the level they were hundreds of years ago. And men would dominate with no questions asked.

I am not a perfect man, nor are any of us. But the one thing I have going for me is something I would not give up for any price: I have a LOW sex drive. This allows me to do things that many other men probably struggle to do. Sex is always on MY terms. When I go though situations like the OP says, and believe me I have, I can walk away with pink balls and not blue ones. My plates and LTRs of the past and present know that if I want sex and they turn me down, it may be a LONG time before I initiate again, and they may get turned down 2-3 times next time they want it from me.

I'm telling you guys, it's a great place to be.. Am I trying to say I am Mr. perfect sex machine, NO. But I have actually two things going for me sexually that give me an advantage over 95% of the men out there 1) THIS, my low sex drive and 2) stamina. On the other hand my c0ck size is average at best. But I would much rather have 1 and 2 like I do than a bigger c0ck. No doubt.

VladPatton · Mar 1, 2015

This is why walking away is so valuable. Ok, she got the attention, the ego boost, and you picked up your balls, asked for the date and got shot down. Without a doubt, at this point, your sole duty is to walk away. Once you make this instinctual, you'll never complain about "what happened!?" ever again.

nismo-4 · Mar 1, 2015

VladPatton said:
This is why walking away is so valuable. Ok, she got the attention, the ego boost, and you picked up your balls, asked for the date and got shot down. Without a doubt, at this point, your sole duty is to walk away. Once you make this instinctual, you'll never complain about "what happened!?" ever again.

It's only valuable if she liked you. But you still failed and got NEXTed. You can't next a girl you didn't f**k. Men walking away from women comes from a combination of rejection and refusing to be an orbiter. But it's unknown where the guy f**ked up.

I go so far as to block these numbers, and go by the one strike rule. When you make a move (call her bluff) and she gets cold, she really found you unattractive and thus just wanted a friend, orbiter, emotional tampon, doormat, or attention giver.

Who Dares Win · Mar 2, 2015

VladPatton said:
This is why walking away is so valuable. Ok, she got the attention, the ego boost, and you picked up your balls, asked for the date and got shot down. Without a doubt, at this point, your sole duty is to walk away. Once you make this instinctual, you'll never complain about "what happened!?" ever again.

Agree with you but also with Nismo, you walking away after being rejected and refusing to keep feeding her ego is the best choice but its no different than a girl fvcked and dumped which no longer give sex to the guy.

A girl that got fvcked cant reject the guy who did that, as much as a rejected guy cant next a girl.

Agree on the damage limiting policy and the intelligent decision of dropping something that doesnt work.

What I meant to say originally was that just like they test us in any possible way before spreading their legs, we should do the same but not only before a relationship but even before asking her out, especially if its a girl we have in our work place, gym and common attendance place.

Personally I dont even need to ask a girl out to find out if she wants me or not, I just learned about women themselves and their "casual touch", I do the same like trying to grab their hands while talking or putting my hand on their tight while in a queue, according to the reaction you can have a good esteem of how attractive she finds you, yet you can still find manipulators this way.

El Payaso · Mar 2, 2015

logicallefty said:
Very true. And relates to past posts I have made about men needing/wanting sex too much.

We must find a way, as a male collective, to not need and/or want sex as much. There are a lot of ways to do this, none of which are likely to be implemented wide scale and long term: more porn and spanking the monkey, more h00kers, more plates and ONSs with women who are far below what we want like the HB 1-4s which leaves the HB 5s-10s having to work harder for d|ck. Or some drug or natural remedy that we all take that lowers sex drive. I GUARANTEE you guys if this could be accomplished on a large scale, it wouldn't just change GAME, it would change the world as we know it. Women would be back at the level they were hundreds of years ago. And men would dominate with no questions asked.

I am not a perfect man, nor are any of us. But the one thing I have going for me is something I would not give up for any price: I have a LOW sex drive. This allows me to do things that many other men probably struggle to do. Sex is always on MY terms. When I go though situations like the OP says, and believe me I have, I can walk away with pink balls and not blue ones. My plates and LTRs of the past and present know that if I want sex and they turn me down, it may be a LONG time before I initiate again, and they may get turned down 2-3 times next time they want it from me.

I'm telling you guys, it's a great place to be.. Am I trying to say I am Mr. perfect sex machine, NO. But I have actually two things going for me sexually that give me an advantage over 95% of the men out there 1) THIS, my low sex drive and 2) stamina. On the other hand my c0ck size is average at best. But I would much rather have 1 and 2 like I do than a bigger c0ck. No doubt.

Yup. A high sex drive can be a curse sometimes.

Who Dares Win · Mar 2, 2015

As much as sex drive is an urge that often leads you to take stupid decisions, its not always the main reason for that.

The need of approval or self confirmation which requires you to get women can be a force as strong as your d1ck pulling, we know plenty of people which did stupid things because of a ego that needed to be fed.

Lets be honest if it was just a matter of sex drive, an escort would do as well, we want to get girls because it satisfies our c0cks as much as our ego and desire to conquer and dominate.

They know it, they know that we as men need a girl even in social settings to score points (have you ever had a president with no wife?).

Even the suggestion given here when your date makes you jealous involves you getting other girls not just going have a drink by yourself at the bar, it says to manage to get an other one just like a pilot needs a new car.

Obdemwpolre · Apr 12, 2015

Thank you informed me.

donking · Apr 12, 2015

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ChrisFloyd · Apr 13, 2015

"I was thinking about my teens years and observing some interactions in a club this last month"

foreverAFC · Apr 13, 2015

sure, this happens to me all the time, women are constantly using me for an ego boost. they will give me a huge IOI or be overly friendly out of nowhere, and as soon as i reciprocate they start ignoring me.

oe of the weirdest ones was one time i was at a gym, and i was using one of the machines, and i noticed in my peripheral vision that this one girl was looking at me. i already assumed she was a tease, or just looking for attention cause i had seen her there before with some douchy guy. anyway, i dont look at her, i just keep working out, but i can feel her continue to stare at me. so i finally look over and make eye contact, and as soon as i give her a nod and acknowledge her she gets up off the machine she was on and walks out of the gym and goes home.

its like im good enough to tease or get ego boosts from, but not good enough to actually get to know or talk to

El Payaso · Apr 13, 2015

logicallefty said:
Very true. And relates to past posts I have made about men needing/wanting sex too much.

We must find a way, as a male collective, to not need and/or want sex as much. There are a lot of ways to do this, none of which are likely to be implemented wide scale and long term: more porn and spanking the monkey, more h00kers, more plates and ONSs with women who are far below what we want like the HB 1-4s which leaves the HB 5s-10s having to work harder for d|ck. Or some drug or natural remedy that we all take that lowers sex drive. I GUARANTEE you guys if this could be accomplished on a large scale, it wouldn't just change GAME, it would change the world as we know it. Women would be back at the level they were hundreds of years ago. And men would dominate with no questions asked.

I am not a perfect man, nor are any of us. But the one thing I have going for me is something I would not give up for any price: I have a LOW sex drive. This allows me to do things that many other men probably struggle to do. Sex is always on MY terms. When I go though situations like the OP says, and believe me I have, I can walk away with pink balls and not blue ones. My plates and LTRs of the past and present know that if I want sex and they turn me down, it may be a LONG time before I initiate again, and they may get turned down 2-3 times next time they want it from me.

I'm telling you guys, it's a great place to be.. Am I trying to say I am Mr. perfect sex machine, NO. But I have actually two things going for me sexually that give me an advantage over 95% of the men out there 1) THIS, my low sex drive and 2) stamina. On the other hand my c0ck size is average at best. But I would much rather have 1 and 2 like I do than a bigger c0ck. No doubt.

How do you have this lower sex drive? Just curious.

playa99 · Apr 13, 2015

Agree 100%, this is why not being desperate works so well!

logicallefty · Apr 13, 2015

El Payaso said:
How do you have this lower sex drive? Just curious.

- If I have sex once I can go for 1-2 weeks without caring if I have it again or even thinking about it all that much

- If I get aroused and then don't get off, it's no big deal. I've never had "blue balls". I have no ideas what that even is like. Sometimes I don't get off no matter what. Sometimes it takes me an hour. Sometimes it takes 10 minutes.

- If a woman I am with p|sses me off and then thinks that her \|/ is going to make everything OK, she can get buck naked and rub on me and I can still push her away.

- If I really get h0rney and there is no opportunity for sex at that particular time I can rub one out and be good to go

I had sex Saturday night and it was awesome. So right now it's the last thing on my mind. My mother says my father is was the same way and it used to frustrate her. He would only need sex every few weeks. Guess I'm lucky to be here!

guru1000 · Apr 13, 2015

nismo-4 said:
It's only valuable if she liked you. But you still failed and got NEXTed. You can't next a girl you didn't f**k.

You have succeeded, not failed, when you walk away clean after getting NEXTed.

The value of self-respect supersedes any triumph of puzzy. I'd rather get NEXTed and walk away clean than acceptance. The latter is fleeting euphoria; the former is a fertile investment to evolve the man you will become.

The destination is never the puzzy, but rather the road YOU pave with what you have.

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