pyros
Master Don Juan
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The majority of my buddies have vanished in the half a year or so.
Out of 12 guys (not all close friends of course), now 7 are in a relationship, 3 were just 'party' friends, 1 became really selfish so I dont want his friendship anymore, and the last one works a lot.
So here I am, 29 years old, and all of the sudden I just have one friend left I see regularly (from another group of friends). In the last 3 months my old buddies have not said a word about going to the movies, go to party, or to grab a beer. They are all silent...even our whatsapp group is dead.
I dont know what to do. Lately I find myself in the situation that I do not have any buddies to go out, except one who is a good friend but you know.
Three months ago I could choose to go out with this group of friends, with this other guy, or with some chick I was seing, but now...
What really makes my angry is that all these guys are with their girlfriends (every damn day and night) and they do not seem to have any interest in hanging out with their guy 'friends' anymore. It's just like they spend all their time with their gf's, all the damn time, every single day, and the do not even want to spend a couple of hours having a beer with their 'friends'.
When I was 20 we hung out everyweek,. Up until three months ago or so, we usually hung out once or twice a month, sometimes they brough their gf as well which was ok, but now...nothing...the void.
I dont know if I should tell them something but it is crystal clear they do not give a shít...
P.S.
I read somewhere that this is pretty common but it's just stupid. When I have a gf I dont like to spend 100% of the time with her, I like to see my buddies, but it seems they do the opposite.
Out of 12 guys (not all close friends of course), now 7 are in a relationship, 3 were just 'party' friends, 1 became really selfish so I dont want his friendship anymore, and the last one works a lot.
So here I am, 29 years old, and all of the sudden I just have one friend left I see regularly (from another group of friends). In the last 3 months my old buddies have not said a word about going to the movies, go to party, or to grab a beer. They are all silent...even our whatsapp group is dead.
I dont know what to do. Lately I find myself in the situation that I do not have any buddies to go out, except one who is a good friend but you know.
Three months ago I could choose to go out with this group of friends, with this other guy, or with some chick I was seing, but now...
What really makes my angry is that all these guys are with their girlfriends (every damn day and night) and they do not seem to have any interest in hanging out with their guy 'friends' anymore. It's just like they spend all their time with their gf's, all the damn time, every single day, and the do not even want to spend a couple of hours having a beer with their 'friends'.
When I was 20 we hung out everyweek,. Up until three months ago or so, we usually hung out once or twice a month, sometimes they brough their gf as well which was ok, but now...nothing...the void.
I dont know if I should tell them something but it is crystal clear they do not give a shít...
P.S.
I read somewhere that this is pretty common but it's just stupid. When I have a gf I dont like to spend 100% of the time with her, I like to see my buddies, but it seems they do the opposite.