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Have you ever cheated?

How many of you have cheated, in how many relationships?

  • Never

    Votes: 16 39.0%
  • Only in one relationship

    Votes: 13 31.7%
  • In two

    Votes: 1 2.4%
  • More than two relationships

    Votes: 11 26.8%

  • Total voters
    41

PipeDope

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Never have. Is it a rush? How have you felt afterwards
 

TheMonkeyKing

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Have quite a few times when I was younger. Usually drunk. Usually when frustrated/bored in a relationship. Don't bother anymore. If a relationship is tailing off or I meet someone else, I just end it immeidately. Last time I cheated, I ended it within the week. Can't be doing with the hassle to be honest. Don't know how women do it.
 

VikingKing

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TheMonkeyKing said:
Have quite a few times when I was younger. Usually drunk. Usually when frustrated/bored in a relationship. Don't bother anymore. If a relationship is tailing off or I meet someone else, I just end it immeidately. Last time I cheated, I ended it within the week. Can't be doing with the hassle to be honest. Don't know how women do it.
Could you also vote so all the counts can be in one place.
 

TheMonkeyKing

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VikingKing said:
Could you also vote so all the counts can be in one place.
I have already.
 

GS750

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been tempted, but no.
 

logicallefty

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PipeDope said:
Never have. Is it a rush? How have you felt afterwards
Cheated on one GF one time in early 06. Felt so bad that I dumped the GF because I could no longer look her in the eye and live with the guilt and myself. I don't know how these women who are chronic cheaters can stomach it like its nothing.
 

GS750

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logicallefty said:
Cheated on one GF one time in early 06. Felt so bad that I dumped the GF because I could no longer look her in the eye and live with the guilt and myself. I don't know how these women who are chronic cheaters can stomach it like its nothing.
Easy. Female rationalizations. That's how.

"he doesn't pay enough attention to me"
"he makes me the butt of his jokes"
"I've been unhappy for quite some time"
"He has a small d*ck"
"I just don't have that feeling for him anymore"
"he works too much"
"he doesn't make me feel like he loves me"
etc, etc, etc.
 

way2smart

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I have cheated multiple times in multiple relationships.
I did feel some guilt at first, but I got used to it and even got proficient at lying.
But I would only cheat if I am sure I will get away with it and she will never find out.

That's my personal choice and I don't recommend people do it, but I don't feel any type of guilt anymore.
 

Who Dares Win

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There is not a single girl I didnt cheat on.

Why? because of libido and because of the need to conquer, plus Im a man and I should be taken accountable on a different standard.

When it comes of cheating we're not equal.

What makes me feel guilty instead is the fact that I didnt treat certain girls as good as I should, I feel much more guilty about my bad behaviour toward many good girls than the fact of cheating, in some way that was more a masturbation with a girl body.
 

way2smart

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Who Dares Win said:
Im a man and I should be taken accountable on a different standard.
This is the most important part. The moment women start believing you are loyal to them, that's the moment when they will start disrespecting you.

Besides, most women would cheat themselves if Brad Pitt wanted to bang them.
 

Jaylan

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Never have, never will. I dont commit to women I cannot be loyal to. I dont break my word because I value honesty, and expect the same in my women if I am to commit.
 

Desdinova

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Did it with my ex-wife. She was never home, so I found some female attention elsewhere. My mistress was also cheating on her fiancee, so we were both pretty much in the same boat.
 

playa99

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I have never cheated in terms of sleeping with anyone else, however I have kissed other girls in the club when drunk (completely meaningless and pointless, high risk and no reward.)

I feel a certain amount of guilt towards it, however I do know it was completely meaningless and just a stupid mistake which I won't make again, if your happy, sh!t like that is just stupid!
 

TheGambino

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Yes I would cheat. But I might meet a girl that supply all my needs and I wont feel the urge to do it. Yet I think I can't resist a hot colombian short girl with curly hair big eyes and popped up titties tho o0
 

RangerMIke

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I can honestly say that I NEVER cheated on an exclusive relationship. When I feel the need to cheat I end the relationship before that happens.
 

VikingKing

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Who Dares Win said:
There is not a single girl I didnt cheat on.

Why? because of libido and because of the need to conquer, plus Im a man and I should be taken accountable on a different standard.

When it comes of cheating we're not equal.

What makes me feel guilty instead is the fact that I didnt treat certain girls as good as I should, I feel much more guilty about my bad behaviour toward many good girls than the fact of cheating, in some way that was more a masturbation with a girl body.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MY1KXf0hlkQ
 
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