TheTraveller
Don Juan
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- Jun 30, 2003
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So I'm back, now living in Los Angeles and very, very happy to be single out here.
Since I don't know people outside of work, I tried out online dating (okcupid). While it's rather easy for me to get first dates and more with 4's and 5's, it's my dates with the 6 - 8s. Crash and burn.
I've been testing out this theory that we should wait for the woman to kino first. Well, most will be more than willing to hug me or initiate a hug at the start of the date, but during the date they don't initiate any kino. What gives? I'm myself, personable and most women seem to be having a good time (or are great actresses... not dating anyone in the industry, though). They'll have their one drink, we'll talk for an hour or two and generally, that's it. Holy crap do first date internet dates suck.
I've bucked this trend and tried out the kino first technique on one or two and although they had no problems with it, they didn't really reciprocate.
Any advice on kino would be appreciated. It has gotten to the point where I've had about a dozen first dates and maybe a few second dates and 3 lays. I'm short (5'7) but it hasn't impacted me that much online as I'm successful and attractive, but I know I can much more easily meet girls in person. I took down the okc profile and figure that it'd be a lot easier to game in person and know right away where I would like to take things and judge her interest accordingly. But this kino first stuff is really annoying me.
-t
Since I don't know people outside of work, I tried out online dating (okcupid). While it's rather easy for me to get first dates and more with 4's and 5's, it's my dates with the 6 - 8s. Crash and burn.
I've been testing out this theory that we should wait for the woman to kino first. Well, most will be more than willing to hug me or initiate a hug at the start of the date, but during the date they don't initiate any kino. What gives? I'm myself, personable and most women seem to be having a good time (or are great actresses... not dating anyone in the industry, though). They'll have their one drink, we'll talk for an hour or two and generally, that's it. Holy crap do first date internet dates suck.
I've bucked this trend and tried out the kino first technique on one or two and although they had no problems with it, they didn't really reciprocate.
Any advice on kino would be appreciated. It has gotten to the point where I've had about a dozen first dates and maybe a few second dates and 3 lays. I'm short (5'7) but it hasn't impacted me that much online as I'm successful and attractive, but I know I can much more easily meet girls in person. I took down the okc profile and figure that it'd be a lot easier to game in person and know right away where I would like to take things and judge her interest accordingly. But this kino first stuff is really annoying me.
-t