Hey guys,
I need a male perspective on my current situation with no judgements please.
Ok so for the last 2 weeks I've been seeing a guy from work. His 49 and I'm 26. Again please don't judge. It's only been 2 weeks and I've already fallen head over heels for him. His everything that I could want in a man, and to me age is nothing but a number. So anyway we've been texting non stop for the past week, getting to know each other and setting up a date. We managed to set one up the other day. We both hired a hotel room.
It was the most fun night. We spoke, cuddled and kissed for the most of the night and yes we did sleep together. He didn't pressure me, I got caught in the moment with him and couldn't help myself. The sex was great on my end, however I am scared I didn't please him enough....I'm not that much sexually experienced so I still have a lot to learn, he got a semi most of the time but couldn't finish me off because he wasn't hard enough...of course this made me feel conscious but he assured me that it was him and not me...I don't know if I believe that but he did tell me he hasn't had s3x in 2 years.....
What has me worried the most is I think I may have scared him...he knows how crazy I am for him already and how much I would like to be more then friends eventually but I also did tell him that I don't want to get attached to him if he doesn't see a future with me....I didn't mean to put so much pressure on him so early but I need to look out for myself and for some reason I am just so drawn to him, it's like I need to have him. He said to me that he wants to take things slow and see where things go.
Another thing that's worrying me though, is ever since our nighy together he has been distant. We've gone from texting all day everyday to barely nothing for the last few days...I haven't confronted him over it because I don't want to be too clingy or anything but I am so worried. I don't know if I have screwed this up by being too forward about things or if his having second thoughts about me?? I'm useless at reading men. Also his not overly bothered about the huge age gap as he has a teenage son who approves but I think he may be worried about what my parents and friends/society will think about it....
Ughh I don't know what to do!!! Please help! And keep judgments to yourself
I need a male perspective on my current situation with no judgements please.
Ok so for the last 2 weeks I've been seeing a guy from work. His 49 and I'm 26. Again please don't judge. It's only been 2 weeks and I've already fallen head over heels for him. His everything that I could want in a man, and to me age is nothing but a number. So anyway we've been texting non stop for the past week, getting to know each other and setting up a date. We managed to set one up the other day. We both hired a hotel room.
It was the most fun night. We spoke, cuddled and kissed for the most of the night and yes we did sleep together. He didn't pressure me, I got caught in the moment with him and couldn't help myself. The sex was great on my end, however I am scared I didn't please him enough....I'm not that much sexually experienced so I still have a lot to learn, he got a semi most of the time but couldn't finish me off because he wasn't hard enough...of course this made me feel conscious but he assured me that it was him and not me...I don't know if I believe that but he did tell me he hasn't had s3x in 2 years.....
What has me worried the most is I think I may have scared him...he knows how crazy I am for him already and how much I would like to be more then friends eventually but I also did tell him that I don't want to get attached to him if he doesn't see a future with me....I didn't mean to put so much pressure on him so early but I need to look out for myself and for some reason I am just so drawn to him, it's like I need to have him. He said to me that he wants to take things slow and see where things go.
Another thing that's worrying me though, is ever since our nighy together he has been distant. We've gone from texting all day everyday to barely nothing for the last few days...I haven't confronted him over it because I don't want to be too clingy or anything but I am so worried. I don't know if I have screwed this up by being too forward about things or if his having second thoughts about me?? I'm useless at reading men. Also his not overly bothered about the huge age gap as he has a teenage son who approves but I think he may be worried about what my parents and friends/society will think about it....
Ughh I don't know what to do!!! Please help! And keep judgments to yourself