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Dhoulmagus

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I don't want to get desperate and break nc, but the ugly fat girl is the only girl I can get.
 

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LMAO...

just watch some porn man, then you will feel less stressed about this.
 

Dhoulmagus

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pyros said:
LMAO...

just watch some porn man, then you will feel less stressed about this.
I did, but I only do it once a day. Should I start doing it twice?
 

hop On hop Off

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pyros said:
LMAO...

just watch some porn man, then you will feel less stressed about this.
This is a bad advice. Please do not listen to this advice!

Porn does not make you less desperate. It makes you more desperate. You need help with your mind set, you need re-frame.

You do not become alpha by watching porn. Alphas are busy and have goals. Being alpha takes work and persistence on that work.

Keep working on yourself. Never give up. Your hard work will pay back.
 

zorg198

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Instead keeping your mind busy of having sex all the time set goals and achive them.
start moving on with your life , go to the gym.... learn something new.

Listen- i just had a breakup one month ago with a w0hre... i was sad for two weeks. kept thinking about her and did nothing .

Said to myself , time to wake up- nothing comes up if i sat down and feel sorry for myself. started to go to the gym, eating a lot and got a bit stronger. invested in my job , reading book of pook , no more nice guy. moving to another apartment.

Do the things you want in your life , keep yourself busy and it will come.


Joe.
 

Dhoulmagus

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It will be about 3 hours round trip and she's crazy. Is sex worth it?
 

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If she lived next door it wouldn't be worth it. Hell, I wouldn't travel 3 hours for anything less than a 9.5 or higher
 

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I wouldn't bang that with a rented dıck! Get a grip, man! Porn rulez, fatty droolz.
 

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Bruh if your main goal is getting the puss, then that's your problem.

You don't have other interests? Responsibilities?

How about you focus on getting in shape, improving your career, finances, or chasing a passion.

Too many guys making puss 100% of there lives. Sex lasts on average 45 mins.

Its not about the 45 mins.

Its about what you have afterward.
 

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Go out.. hit the club.. do some cold approaches.. maybe you will get lucky and meet someone new.. if you fail.. then go home and do your thing to porn.. I would kill myself if I got an std or accidently fell in love with a fat chick.
 

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I did this ONLY ONCE. I was in the Army and hooked up with my room mates girl friends, friend. They came back from a club... she was drunk off her ass, and feeling really insecure because some dudes were ignoring her at the club.

It actually turned out VERY well. To date, best BJ I ever got. She knew EXACTLY what it was, and honestly was very appreciative of the attention. We never did it again, and remained friends for years. I helped her develop into a women that was attactive, leveraged her positive aspects, worked out with her. Turned her into a women that men wanted.

Truth is it was one of the proudest moments of my life. She frequently would tell me that that night was the most significant moments of her life. I think about her more than all the one and done hooks I've ever had.
 

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SmooveMooves said:
Bruh if your main goal is getting the puss, then that's your problem.

You don't have other interests? Responsibilities?

How about you focus on getting in shape, improving your career, finances, or chasing a passion.

Too many guys making puss 100% of there lives. Sex lasts on average 45 mins.

Its not about the 45 mins.

Its about what you have afterward.
This.

It's fine to get laid, but try not to make yourself a slave to the puss.

I know it's easier for me to say because I'm older and probably have a lower sex drive than you, but the point is the same.

You are giving these bytches way too much power over you.
 

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I guess I would consider it, but simply because I have more control these days. I can have the balls to say this is just sex and nothing more.

I'd be terribly afraid of leading an ugly woman on, and having to deal with her in the morning. Feeling horribly guilty and just being a bad person. But if you can make it clear that it's only a one-time thing, why not.

Certainly don't drive 3 hours man. You'll have to spend the night, wake up to her. Picture before you, she gets up and goes to the toilet, and you see her fat cellulite bum, she reeks of cold smoke and you think OH MY GOD WHAT HAVE I DONE - but you have to stay for lunch :p

If you must do it, make it a very clear one night stand.

Pic kind of related
 

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Dhoulmagus said:
I don't want to get desperate and break nc, but the ugly fat girl is the only girl I can get.
You probably just give off a beta creepy vibe to women. Or your standards are too high.!
 
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