Hi guys.
Greetings.
Me and my best friend have a very close relationship, really close, we trust each other much, we can feel when each other is not right and will not really rest when they found out what is going on and all that sort of stuff. We know each other for 3 years now, and although i don´t love her since all that time, for the last year and a half i know that i want to at least try something more with her(i have tried asking other girls out, but i don´t feel the click i feel with her). When we met, she was in a relationship with a guy, and when i begun to have other feelings for her she was still dating with the guy, but broke off with him soon after it(not related to my feelings, i never told them). But we soon had a fight about some lies i found out about her, not really about me, but i don´t take lightly lies. We were not on speaking terms for like 5 months, but 4 months ago she came to say i´m sorry to me and asked if we could rebuilt or resume our friendship. I Thought a bit about it and decided that yeah it´s worth a shot. Since we first met, much as changed, i study in a diferent city than her(although it´s only half an hour by car, and 45 minutes by Train), but i always spend the weekends in the same city than her, and if needed i can get there very easily because it´s where my parents live. We have texted a lot since then, but i didn´t really know how to ask her out, since now we don´t study in the same place and stuff, but i let it go for a while, but 2 months i decided not very directly to ask her out and said "Would you like to do something with me? Like grabbing some lunch and stuff?" she replied "Of Course Yes ", but some **** happened in my life, much work, had to stay where is study for two weekends and it never came to fruition. To my surprise, some 3 weeks later, we were talking about an injury my Mom suffered and she told me to give her a get well kiss to which i replied "It will be delivered Thanks for your concern, it means a lot to me " and she replied " Look, we could go get a cup of coffee this weekend, what do you think?" but then she had some family emergencies, she had to cook a whole family dinner because her mom had a work emergency(and this is true, she sent me like 3 MMS with picture of what she had cooked) and nothing came of it. But since that timezone, i noticed something in her, even before that invitation, she seems distant, not like rude, but answers me in a lot of intervals, when we talk they aren´t really bad talks, but they are short and then she just quits answer like for example one i said something a teacher of me described as a type of personality reminded me of her and she replied "not sure, i´m a little bit like a wild girl in the woods ahah" and i replied "you are a force of nature " and she replied "Awwwwwwwwwwwwwwww thanks" and after this she just quitted answering for example. Despites this, i decided to ask her out to see Hunger Games last week and she replied "Sounds Like a great Idea I had thought about inviting you but didn´t want you to feel obligated to go with me", but we still haven´t gone to it(we will probably go next week, since i enter my university vacations and i will return to my hometown), but i just can´t feel she´s not the same, and yesterday i decided to be really honest and asked her if something is wrong with me, or something else? She replied "I just haven´t given much attention to my cellphone, it´s not you, it´s everybody " But i just can´t believed it, it´s kinda of a weak excuse really, i know her, been in group activities with her, in the same university as her, she always has her cellphone by her side, talking to her friends, family, playing games wtv.
What do you feel about it? Is she hiding something from me? Help Please
Greetings.
Me and my best friend have a very close relationship, really close, we trust each other much, we can feel when each other is not right and will not really rest when they found out what is going on and all that sort of stuff. We know each other for 3 years now, and although i don´t love her since all that time, for the last year and a half i know that i want to at least try something more with her(i have tried asking other girls out, but i don´t feel the click i feel with her). When we met, she was in a relationship with a guy, and when i begun to have other feelings for her she was still dating with the guy, but broke off with him soon after it(not related to my feelings, i never told them). But we soon had a fight about some lies i found out about her, not really about me, but i don´t take lightly lies. We were not on speaking terms for like 5 months, but 4 months ago she came to say i´m sorry to me and asked if we could rebuilt or resume our friendship. I Thought a bit about it and decided that yeah it´s worth a shot. Since we first met, much as changed, i study in a diferent city than her(although it´s only half an hour by car, and 45 minutes by Train), but i always spend the weekends in the same city than her, and if needed i can get there very easily because it´s where my parents live. We have texted a lot since then, but i didn´t really know how to ask her out, since now we don´t study in the same place and stuff, but i let it go for a while, but 2 months i decided not very directly to ask her out and said "Would you like to do something with me? Like grabbing some lunch and stuff?" she replied "Of Course Yes ", but some **** happened in my life, much work, had to stay where is study for two weekends and it never came to fruition. To my surprise, some 3 weeks later, we were talking about an injury my Mom suffered and she told me to give her a get well kiss to which i replied "It will be delivered Thanks for your concern, it means a lot to me " and she replied " Look, we could go get a cup of coffee this weekend, what do you think?" but then she had some family emergencies, she had to cook a whole family dinner because her mom had a work emergency(and this is true, she sent me like 3 MMS with picture of what she had cooked) and nothing came of it. But since that timezone, i noticed something in her, even before that invitation, she seems distant, not like rude, but answers me in a lot of intervals, when we talk they aren´t really bad talks, but they are short and then she just quits answer like for example one i said something a teacher of me described as a type of personality reminded me of her and she replied "not sure, i´m a little bit like a wild girl in the woods ahah" and i replied "you are a force of nature " and she replied "Awwwwwwwwwwwwwwww thanks" and after this she just quitted answering for example. Despites this, i decided to ask her out to see Hunger Games last week and she replied "Sounds Like a great Idea I had thought about inviting you but didn´t want you to feel obligated to go with me", but we still haven´t gone to it(we will probably go next week, since i enter my university vacations and i will return to my hometown), but i just can´t feel she´s not the same, and yesterday i decided to be really honest and asked her if something is wrong with me, or something else? She replied "I just haven´t given much attention to my cellphone, it´s not you, it´s everybody " But i just can´t believed it, it´s kinda of a weak excuse really, i know her, been in group activities with her, in the same university as her, she always has her cellphone by her side, talking to her friends, family, playing games wtv.
What do you feel about it? Is she hiding something from me? Help Please