Received a text from my co-worker last night inviting me out for drinks. We've been talking for months and have gone out before. She's in a relationship that is on the rocks and she had a huge argument with her bf and wanted to go out and have some fun. I'm not one to come in between two people but she's smoking hot and has a great personality. If the guy is on his way out then I want in. They live together and he's moving out.
Picked her up and went to a bar. She looked sad and started telling me about her problems. I listened for a bit but then changed topic and began escalating and leading the conversation towards seduction and rapport building. Began touching her hand, face, waist, etc. She had too much to drink and was drunk by the end of the night. She started asking me questions about a girl I've been messing around with and whether that's serious or not. Told her no.
Did the triangular gaze and leaned in for the kiss. We made out in the car. I was going to drop her off at her place (the boyfriend was home) but she said she didn't want to go home. I told her she could stay at my place. I rent the upstairs apt at my mother's house so the logistics are kind of messed up. Anyway brought her home. She was passed out and I carried her up the stairs. She woke up when I put her in bed and we cuddled. We were kissing but she was too drunk/sleepy. She was feeling asleep. That's how drunk she was. Didn't feel right to force the issue. She then said can we just cuddle and hugged me.
I held her and she fell asleep in my arms. No sex. First time this ever happened to me. A girl slept in my bed and there was no sex.
The bf texted her very early and said he was moving out. He wasn't too happy with her sleeping out. She asked me to take her home. She said she would go up to the apt and if he wasn't there she would text me so I can go in and she can show me her apt. I thought great this is when we will have sex. She texted and I went in. We kissed. She hugged me and looked sad. I think she sees me more as a friend or someone who's helping her get through a tough moment. She started talking about mistakes that happened in her relationship and how he thinks shes a bad person and he doesn't do anything with her and works all the time. I started to feel like Dr. Phil and I wanted to end talking about them. I tried to escalate but she said no its not the right time. We talked some more and I left.
What advice do you guys have? What can I do to find my way into her pants? I don't want to be the guy she calls to vent and talk about her problems. She is a very cool person so I wouldn't mind having her as a friend but she's so hot I want to be more than that.
I feel a little punkish about not having sex with her but also feel I did the right thing. I dont think is ok to force yourself on a girl or do something when she is not conscious.
Picked her up and went to a bar. She looked sad and started telling me about her problems. I listened for a bit but then changed topic and began escalating and leading the conversation towards seduction and rapport building. Began touching her hand, face, waist, etc. She had too much to drink and was drunk by the end of the night. She started asking me questions about a girl I've been messing around with and whether that's serious or not. Told her no.
Did the triangular gaze and leaned in for the kiss. We made out in the car. I was going to drop her off at her place (the boyfriend was home) but she said she didn't want to go home. I told her she could stay at my place. I rent the upstairs apt at my mother's house so the logistics are kind of messed up. Anyway brought her home. She was passed out and I carried her up the stairs. She woke up when I put her in bed and we cuddled. We were kissing but she was too drunk/sleepy. She was feeling asleep. That's how drunk she was. Didn't feel right to force the issue. She then said can we just cuddle and hugged me.
I held her and she fell asleep in my arms. No sex. First time this ever happened to me. A girl slept in my bed and there was no sex.
The bf texted her very early and said he was moving out. He wasn't too happy with her sleeping out. She asked me to take her home. She said she would go up to the apt and if he wasn't there she would text me so I can go in and she can show me her apt. I thought great this is when we will have sex. She texted and I went in. We kissed. She hugged me and looked sad. I think she sees me more as a friend or someone who's helping her get through a tough moment. She started talking about mistakes that happened in her relationship and how he thinks shes a bad person and he doesn't do anything with her and works all the time. I started to feel like Dr. Phil and I wanted to end talking about them. I tried to escalate but she said no its not the right time. We talked some more and I left.
What advice do you guys have? What can I do to find my way into her pants? I don't want to be the guy she calls to vent and talk about her problems. She is a very cool person so I wouldn't mind having her as a friend but she's so hot I want to be more than that.
I feel a little punkish about not having sex with her but also feel I did the right thing. I dont think is ok to force yourself on a girl or do something when she is not conscious.
I think you did the right thing. I would have done the same thing myself.
