The LadyKiller
Senior Don Juan
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A few weeks ago, I began talking to a HB who is a friend of a friend. Things were going well - I was receiving IOI's - she would always smile at me, kept our conversations going, etc. So, the other day, I ask her out for drinks.........no response. My job is hectic and I travel all over the area, so I wasn't available to ask her in person and texted her (she prefers text to phone calls, whatever).
Here's the thing - we have some of the same friends in a small town. We are going to run into each other at some point sooner rather than later. Our jobs are not located far from one another, so I could run into her on a work day as well.
With all of this being said, here is my question - if HB is going to say no, why not simply come up with one of the usual excuses ("I'm busy," etc.) or LJBF me? What does totally ignoring it accomplish? I'm sure we will run into each other in the very near future. This has happened with 1-2 other girls in my past, and I'm still confused about this tactic.
EDIT: To clarify, when the previous HB's ignored the question, she wouldn't maintain her previous upbeat/friendly behavior. Communication would dwindle significantly.
Here's the thing - we have some of the same friends in a small town. We are going to run into each other at some point sooner rather than later. Our jobs are not located far from one another, so I could run into her on a work day as well.
With all of this being said, here is my question - if HB is going to say no, why not simply come up with one of the usual excuses ("I'm busy," etc.) or LJBF me? What does totally ignoring it accomplish? I'm sure we will run into each other in the very near future. This has happened with 1-2 other girls in my past, and I'm still confused about this tactic.
EDIT: To clarify, when the previous HB's ignored the question, she wouldn't maintain her previous upbeat/friendly behavior. Communication would dwindle significantly.