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And you will learn everything you need to know to become a huge success with women.

Thank you for visiting and have a great day!

Haven't FAP for 6+ months.

Jair213

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A little background. - Started masturbating when I was 9. Did it excessively, almost everyday. Started masterbating to porn when I was 12. I am 26 now.

Ive being somehow feeling more connected to my body. Weird to explain but I just do. I am more aware of my surroundings, as if I feel more in the moment. I could be able to hold eye contact with people better. Have better conversations.

At the gym I feel more energetic. My gains have improved. Eyes look somehow better, thicker hair,(got that pauly D blow up told my barber to do it LOL) usually I would have dry skin, not anymore, it looks smooth and healthier.

One thing that I notice is my mood is more stronger like a stronger attitude, I am way less sentimental. Things that usually made me feel sad almost don’t anymore, its like whatever now. Things piss me off quicker. My thought process has improved when someone asks me a question I somehow process it faster and I answer quicker. I feel indestructible, bullet proof. I am way more positive, but at the same time I could careless off watt people think, do or say in any negative way I am quick to tell em to **** off without second thoughts.More confident. I am able to go up to anyone and talk. I know it sounds crazy but its just the inner feeling off feeling this is unexplainable. I feel more like a freaken man. Oh and my nipples are less sensitive. LOL

Also, If I go out to the store, anywhere, if I make eye contact with some dude and he ends up looking at me bad or just straight dogs me with a messed up look, I feel like I blow up inside with anger, madness, and I don’t look away, all of those times they stare down or look away, but I just feel like going and ripping there heads of though, and slamming there craniums in the concrete. Also I was reading this study that criminals have high testosterone levels, gang and violence are all correlated with dudes having high testosterone levels, maybe that makes a little sense with why I feel like this?

Almost every time I end up getting boners when I see an HB. I am prone to talk to more girls now. Wet dreams are off the charts. Never in my life have I felt like this. Its like I was born again. Rejuvenated.

Note: I am also taking this supplements. ZMA, witch helps support testosterone levels. Vitmin C, K, D and A. and a B vitamin complex. Protein shake after work out. Being bodybuilding for a year now.
 

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I been trying to tell guys about the 90 day no fap challenege I did it, and I felt whole like a man

my game was stronger with women, I wanted to socialize all the time, I had more endurance during workouts

weird benefits too was I could smell women scents more also,lol music sound better too

mankind was not meant to be in front of a computer or sitting in a room jacking off like a mindless zombie

my question to you though op, have you had sex during the six months?
 

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Congrats, to tell the truth I've never noticed a difference between fap or no fap, possibly because I've never felt addicted to it. It's like video games, I like them but I can go a couple months without playing video games if I get busy doing other things. If it's working for you though, keep doing it. :cheer:
 

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Today is day 12 for me. Giving up fap is the best decision I ever made. Period.


I feel amazing from all standpoints. I've met & socialized with more people these 12 days than in the last 5 years.
 

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Interesting. How does it improve your sex life though?

I still rub one out if it's been a few days without sex, though I usually space out my lays 2-3 days. Even after 2 days I get antsy and the next time I fvck a girl I have a really hard time not blasting quick. It might just be me though.

I have tried a prolonged period without release, and like you said the wet dream thing becomes a problem. So it still gets out. So you might as well get it out yourself and not make a mess?
 

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muscleman said:
Interesting. How does it improve your sex life though?

I still rub one out if it's been a few days without sex, though I usually space out my lays 2-3 days. Even after 2 days I get antsy and the next time I fvck a girl I have a really hard time not blasting quick. It might just be me though.
I never really worry about blasting quick. Wait 5 minutes and go again. Anyway , try some Kegal Pc Exercises. They improve your time quite a lot.
I have tried a prolonged period without release, and like you said the wet dream thing becomes a problem. So it still gets out. So you might as well get it out yourself and not make a mess?
I find that it's about the mental process not necessarily the physical process.
Having a wet dream simulates reality. While you're having it your brain conceives it as real , it basically happens on the same grounds that normal sex would.So in short terms , a wet dream > jerkoff regarding how your brain&body perceive it.

For me it improves my sex life because I feel more in touch with my 'inner beast'.

It's like drinking a cold beer after a stream of hot summer days. Instinctively you wanna rush it down your throat and be done with it.But if you have a little self control and savor it , it's gonna feel like the best beer you ever had.
 
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I started Day One of my "No Spanky" challenge today. I figured a testosterone surge will be coming on strong soon. I'm worried about becoming "too aggressive" if I start this and don't have some sort of release soon enough. I tried this in December last year and felt like I was going crazy until a girl called me over, after that it was sticky solo business as usual.

Jair213 sounds like he is very happy and energetic, but the feeling like ripping guys head off thing kind worries me a bit (no offense). I just want a testosterone boost, I don't want to feel like I'm gonna kill someone if a week goes by without some release.
 

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yeah be warn, this stuff makes you want to fight, especially if guys give you that stare, it makes you blow up quick on someone if you feel the slight disrespected.

Not fapping makes the true alpha wolf come out of you, makes you take women, and fight off other males.
 

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Really going to try and do the 90 day challenge, I've never been able to get past a week it seems like though
 

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surely having a w@nk or having sex and you are back to step 1?
 

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And we have wondered for many years why masturbation is considered a sin.....
Man with all these benefits from not wacking off no wonder the bible banned it.
 

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Having sex is fine. Self-sex takes you back to step 1.


day 21 here.

Every time I see a hot pic on facebook or whatever my adrenaline rushes through the roof. It's really hard but damn is it worth it.

2 nights ago I went to a club. I don't know what the fvck was different but I had girl coming at me left and right. One in particular came straight up and shoved her tongue down my throat. She said :"I don't know what , but there's something about you that makes you stand out from the crowd".


I really have no idea if it has anything to do with the no fap , although people say that my 'aura has changed' and that I 'radiate life force'.

Anyway,one thing is for certain. I constantly have this unstoppable urge to go out and socialize. Seriously , I met so many people and made soo many friends in these 20 days it's crazy.
 

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how many of you got laid with a nofap challenge, I`m not talking about getting girls to smile at you, because that`s ridiculous, expecting others to like you because you just are is a feminine trait

so is it with nofap, just beacause you don`t jerk off, you don`t change, but you start to wear this sexual restraint bull**** thing like a badge, you feel proud of yourself ... and basically that`s it

did you have sex with nofap?
 

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posting here to say I'm gonna try this.
I've been seeing this girl, so i've been getting some anyway.

I wonder if I'll have the self control to stick with it.
 

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zenaddict said:
how many of you got laid with a nofap challenge, I`m not talking about getting girls to smile at you, because that`s ridiculous, expecting others to like you because you just are is a feminine trait

so is it with nofap, just beacause you don`t jerk off, you don`t change, but you start to wear this sexual restraint bull**** thing like a badge, you feel proud of yourself ... and basically that`s it

did you have sex with nofap?

I had sex while doing no fap but I never busted

fapping is not sex
 

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There's no way I give up fapping for any of those percieved advantages that you have mentioned. I mean basically your saying that not fapping has made you a emotionally unstable lil man who gets boners when talking to girls coz he has no self control and has wet dreams like a 14 year old....kinda sad dude, just saying
 

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It's funny the people who never tried it, always talk down about it. So what, don't try it dude. You talking about it's sad, dude fapping is sad and unnatural, your d*ck was mean't to unload in a vagina not in your hand or a napkin.
 

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Lol how is it unnatural? the whole point of fapping is to relax the body and release some of the testosterone built inside you.

By your logic, if its unnatural to fap, then it is unnatural that women to masterbate themselves. And yeh i'll admit to being sad, just like 95% of males all over the world, plus the alpha guys i know who get girls with ease, all masterbate excessively. Coz they have so much testosterone, they need to let it out, but seeing as you guys dont have enough you need to keep it in you, just so you can feel like a man ;)

Plus masterbation is proven to reduce risk of prostate cancer, ups your immunity and makes you last longer.

I'm pretty sure id rather be cool & calm around women, not having an erection everytime i see a pair of legs. Coz thats just beta male stuff mate

Dont get crank, have a wank :)
 

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Dude look, do you know when you jack off you lose zinc in your body, zinc is suppose to be in your body. When you have sex with a woman the vagina juices she has helps replenish zinc lost. Do you know the more you lose zinc and testodterone in your body it makes you more feminine.

And no it is not a proven fact it reduces prostate cancer.

Also how do you know these guys are jacking off excessively, that was a very suspect point you just made.
 
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