TheyStaySameAge
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Messed up. Became friends with a neighbour up the street, a single mom in her late twenties. Got some guilt and regret now.
I'm in a small town and so pickings are slim. Made friends with her last summer. I smoke a bit of pot now and again, but this one is a chronic daily smoker. We used to hang, smoke a bit and and have a couple drinks once a week. It was a friendship and I didn't mind. My mentality was don't poop and eat in the same place you live.
The friendship progressed. One night in December we had another neighbour over, and right in front of him - her and I were blatantly giving each other kino back and forth all night.
We kept texting, and I turned her down a couple times. She asked to come over and I said 'No, have friends over. Not tonight.' That made her hamster wheel spin like crazy and she immediately asked our common neighbour friend what was up with me.
Put a joke gift in her door for Xmas, nothing serious. Spent $10. Then we starting going out. Once with a neighbour friend to a bar, then had her out for New Years alone. Kissed her on cheek end of both those nights. Slid the lips down and gave a second 5 second kiss on the neck one time. That set her off and she started texting later that night saying we should be kissing right now. Told me how good I was looking lately, I was a hottie, etc. Lol.
I responded to those texts with 'You're a cutey' and 'So when are we gonna cuddle and watch a movie' and she said 'Soon!!'.
Texted too much that week. Was out drinking with mates and texted her so we could plan a movie night in that week. She openly laid out her schedule with her free nights, BUT told me she had a date one night.
From there I lost my frame and game. Got butt hurt but hid it. Told her I had a date on her night off. Would call if my date cancelled.
Later I let her know I was a bit offended her mention of date. We text some more and now she is 'dating the guy' and she 'only dates one guy at a time'. I got drunk and got nasty by text and told her where to go.
Week later, big group of neighbour friends all go out to the pub including her. It was awkward. I told her I get a little moody from the winter and was sorry about the text. She seemed to accept it, but I think she was just being nice.
Sent a couple more texts letting her know I was open to friendship, and had been dating a lot. No response. My neighbours told her I was dating and they said she wouldn't stop with questions lol. Guess her interest was peaked again. She seemed bitter, and told common neighbours 'He had his chance' on 3 occasions.
The other day, saw her scraping ice off her car and stop to help. She was in a bad mood, and would barely look at me. Couldn't tell if she was pissed at me or cause she had the worst case of acne and blemishes I had ever seen on her.
I'm torn now. Miss the friendship. Plate possibility destroyed. Heard her and the guy she was dating is no big deal.
Thinking of inviting her over for drink and joint. Then re-escalate this to FWB.
Tips? Feedback? Thoughts?
I'm in a small town and so pickings are slim. Made friends with her last summer. I smoke a bit of pot now and again, but this one is a chronic daily smoker. We used to hang, smoke a bit and and have a couple drinks once a week. It was a friendship and I didn't mind. My mentality was don't poop and eat in the same place you live.
The friendship progressed. One night in December we had another neighbour over, and right in front of him - her and I were blatantly giving each other kino back and forth all night.
We kept texting, and I turned her down a couple times. She asked to come over and I said 'No, have friends over. Not tonight.' That made her hamster wheel spin like crazy and she immediately asked our common neighbour friend what was up with me.
Put a joke gift in her door for Xmas, nothing serious. Spent $10. Then we starting going out. Once with a neighbour friend to a bar, then had her out for New Years alone. Kissed her on cheek end of both those nights. Slid the lips down and gave a second 5 second kiss on the neck one time. That set her off and she started texting later that night saying we should be kissing right now. Told me how good I was looking lately, I was a hottie, etc. Lol.
I responded to those texts with 'You're a cutey' and 'So when are we gonna cuddle and watch a movie' and she said 'Soon!!'.
Texted too much that week. Was out drinking with mates and texted her so we could plan a movie night in that week. She openly laid out her schedule with her free nights, BUT told me she had a date one night.
From there I lost my frame and game. Got butt hurt but hid it. Told her I had a date on her night off. Would call if my date cancelled.
Later I let her know I was a bit offended her mention of date. We text some more and now she is 'dating the guy' and she 'only dates one guy at a time'. I got drunk and got nasty by text and told her where to go.
Week later, big group of neighbour friends all go out to the pub including her. It was awkward. I told her I get a little moody from the winter and was sorry about the text. She seemed to accept it, but I think she was just being nice.
Sent a couple more texts letting her know I was open to friendship, and had been dating a lot. No response. My neighbours told her I was dating and they said she wouldn't stop with questions lol. Guess her interest was peaked again. She seemed bitter, and told common neighbours 'He had his chance' on 3 occasions.
The other day, saw her scraping ice off her car and stop to help. She was in a bad mood, and would barely look at me. Couldn't tell if she was pissed at me or cause she had the worst case of acne and blemishes I had ever seen on her.
I'm torn now. Miss the friendship. Plate possibility destroyed. Heard her and the guy she was dating is no big deal.
Thinking of inviting her over for drink and joint. Then re-escalate this to FWB.
Tips? Feedback? Thoughts?
