Southcarolina13
Don Juan
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So a few months ago I met this girl through mutual friends.
Got to know each other received some insight from mutual friends that she was into me and it seemed she was.
Time passes and we all go out one night. End up hooking up (no sex).
Next night go out again and hook up. She wants me to come back to her place but I drove with a friend and am his only ride home. I say no.
I do not reach out to her immediately and hear form a friend she is wondering why.
Now, I'm really into her and I believe this is where I go wrong. We start texting and there's a bit too much "how was work today" conversation.
In any event, about a week later we go see a movie with a group and chill and her interest is peaking.
throughout the next week she is suggesting we hang out. Issue is, there is constantly a reason after she agrees to hang that she cannot but she ALWAYS counteroffers. The counter offer is then unable to work out. This happens three times in a row.
Then finally is able to make it over for a movie. It goes ok, not great and its difficult for me to escalate.
Finally, we (me and some friends) stop by a bar she is at for a bday (she invited me) but shes wasted and we hardly communicate.
the next day i text her asking if she made it home- no response.
I go NC for about 3 weeks and then get a text around 11 PM about 4 days ago asking if i ever go out anymore and why she doesn't see me anymore.
I respond "I do go out" followed by "Btw, new phone who is this?"
No response. Should I just continue NC and if I see her out I see her out or did I miss an opportunity by texting the new phone thing (which btw, i didnt have a new phone)?
Got to know each other received some insight from mutual friends that she was into me and it seemed she was.
Time passes and we all go out one night. End up hooking up (no sex).
Next night go out again and hook up. She wants me to come back to her place but I drove with a friend and am his only ride home. I say no.
I do not reach out to her immediately and hear form a friend she is wondering why.
Now, I'm really into her and I believe this is where I go wrong. We start texting and there's a bit too much "how was work today" conversation.
In any event, about a week later we go see a movie with a group and chill and her interest is peaking.
throughout the next week she is suggesting we hang out. Issue is, there is constantly a reason after she agrees to hang that she cannot but she ALWAYS counteroffers. The counter offer is then unable to work out. This happens three times in a row.
Then finally is able to make it over for a movie. It goes ok, not great and its difficult for me to escalate.
Finally, we (me and some friends) stop by a bar she is at for a bday (she invited me) but shes wasted and we hardly communicate.
the next day i text her asking if she made it home- no response.
I go NC for about 3 weeks and then get a text around 11 PM about 4 days ago asking if i ever go out anymore and why she doesn't see me anymore.
I respond "I do go out" followed by "Btw, new phone who is this?"
No response. Should I just continue NC and if I see her out I see her out or did I miss an opportunity by texting the new phone thing (which btw, i didnt have a new phone)?