Hello Friend,

If this is your first visit to SoSuave, I would advise you to START HERE.

It will be the most efficient use of your time.

And you will learn everything you need to know to become a huge success with women.

Thank you for visiting and have a great day!

Chicks will run “tests” on you because they LIKE you.

Status
Not open for further replies.

PookNinja

Banned
Joined
Aug 31, 2014
Messages
5
Reaction score
0
So you get a chicks number.

You talk.

She contacts you again.

You go out.

You notice “tests” (which most dudes fail/ get pissy at because they aren’t truly confident and NEED someone to validate themselves to some chick which results in turn to them trying to “win” a “game” by “nexting” the chick like an emotional child would do at any sign of emotional discomfort.)

Most times when chicks “test” you especially if you’ve gotten their number and have went out it’s because they aren’t sure of you themselves right away. Especially if they barely know you. You can tell them all great things about yourself and put on an act but the “tests” are their self-defense mechanisms to see if what you say and how you act are truly congruent with what you’ve represented yourself as.

You need to be an adult about things, not get pissed off at the slightest perceived slight, upbeat and positive no matter what the outcome is, outcome independent, your own man, not negative about issues that may arise or you “perceive” to be a real issue, unaffected, and indifferent though understanding.

If some chick constantly plays games? You slowly fade away and never let them see you sweat.

You’d be amazed at how many chicks will turn around as you’ve “shown” by your actions without saying it or being negative about it that you don’t rely on others to make you the person you are whether they stick around or not.

It's up to YOU to be the man you claim to be.

Otherwise you WILL lose by “nexting” every chick every single time to the same MEN who are immune to chicks “tests”. Real talk.
 

asa_don

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 31, 2013
Messages
531
Reaction score
124
Location
S Town
the mods will next your ass when they ban you again :crackup:

you are a joke, your openers suck.

nobody cares about you or what you have to say, any post you make is a waste of time

everybody should ignore this aw, dont respond to any thread she makes, she just wants attention, that will piss her off more when nobody replies.

let the mods ban her, delete these lame ass threads, they should also delete your lame openers threads too.

have fun sitting behind your computer trolling the rest of the weekend, you are a great examle of an angry feminist.
 

Krueg

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 6, 2012
Messages
1,280
Reaction score
131
Age
35
Its not about her and her "Tests" its about screening out UN-Interested women in your life. She has to follow your lead, accept your dates, wonder about you when your not out on a dates.

Chicks with Low-Interest will jerk you around, flake, cancel, and play games. You do NOT need women like this in your life! This is how you protect your heart!
 

mangotot

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 24, 2014
Messages
1,126
Reaction score
22
Maybe it is a genuine objection because she don't like you. And you are reframing it to make yourself feel better.
 

PookNinja

Banned
Joined
Aug 31, 2014
Messages
5
Reaction score
0
Krueg said:
Its not about her and her "Tests" its about screening out UN-Interested women in your life. She has to follow your lead, accept your dates, wonder about you when your not out on a dates.

Chicks with Low-Interest will jerk you around, flake, cancel, and play games. You do NOT need women like this in your life! This is how you protect your heart!
If you take s1t to "heart" with Chicks you just meet it shows her you're an emotional little boy and not the man you claimed to be.

Some of you dudes next way too quickly and get discouraged when you could solve the majority of flakes by being congruent with yourself and not operating on an emotional "perfect" fantasy picture of "success" the way you think things should be. This is life. Not some playboy Don Juan emotionally fueled fantasy.
 
Status
Not open for further replies.
Top