Hi everyone.
I've learned quite a lot from you in the time I've been here. And yet I kept making the same mistakes, trying desperately to get a older girl that seemed to be bipolar and that after showing interest friendzoned me. So I kinda got sick of that, and what to start fresh again.
First thing I did, get more confidence, I have a bad vision (something to thank to my pc habits) and yet I rarely used my glasses daily (they are a bit old now, getting some new ones soon I hope), so I started using them more, and it feels kinda good, I normally hated using them because I thought they made me look awful, now I think, they don't matter much, they might even show my nerdy side better ahah, and they kinda match my blonde hair and face so yeah.. its all about confidence.
Now the next step, having got rid of my ghost with that older bipolar girl, is to talk to more and new girls. In my school I know most people from the year above me, so I either go at younger or same age.
I got 3 girls in mind:
- Girl 1: she's older, arts girl I think, only know a friend of hers, her best friend may kinda think bad of me, because last year I went home in the same path as she did, and a friend of mine once start yelling at her and all saying she was hot and everything, kinda bad for me, since she might have told her about that and think bad of me aswell.
-Girl 2: 1/2 year younger, I know her a bit (an acquaintance I kiss in the cheek to greet her basically), never talked much to her, but I think she's kinda into me, when she and her bf pass by me, they start giggling and all so yeah.. kinda suspicious to me ahah. She's nice and all I was thinking on just starting talking to her, not sure about what really though.
-Girl 3: 2/3 years younger, really beautiful, and nice for her age. Don't know her, never talked to her, one of my friends knows her though. I don't know whats up with her, but it has happened that a couple of times I've looked at her and she looked at me, and she smiled after, or like went with her group near to the place where I was sitting. Once I've even locked eye contact for a couple of seconds and she went surprised and laughed to her friends. Know her fb, but haven't add her yet, not sure if I should since, I shouldn't even know her name.
... I want first of all to be friends with them, I don't know, my school is getting smaller and I feel like I need to know more people, and my school is my only option basically :/ So, do you have any advice on how should I approach them ? I have fb of the Girl 1 and 2, I thinked on starting to talk to the 2 by fb since I actually know her a bit. To be sincere, I'd really like to start talking to the 1 and 3, knowing I don't have much chance with the 1 though.
Thanks in Advance guys !
I've learned quite a lot from you in the time I've been here. And yet I kept making the same mistakes, trying desperately to get a older girl that seemed to be bipolar and that after showing interest friendzoned me. So I kinda got sick of that, and what to start fresh again.
First thing I did, get more confidence, I have a bad vision (something to thank to my pc habits) and yet I rarely used my glasses daily (they are a bit old now, getting some new ones soon I hope), so I started using them more, and it feels kinda good, I normally hated using them because I thought they made me look awful, now I think, they don't matter much, they might even show my nerdy side better ahah, and they kinda match my blonde hair and face so yeah.. its all about confidence.
Now the next step, having got rid of my ghost with that older bipolar girl, is to talk to more and new girls. In my school I know most people from the year above me, so I either go at younger or same age.
I got 3 girls in mind:
- Girl 1: she's older, arts girl I think, only know a friend of hers, her best friend may kinda think bad of me, because last year I went home in the same path as she did, and a friend of mine once start yelling at her and all saying she was hot and everything, kinda bad for me, since she might have told her about that and think bad of me aswell.
-Girl 2: 1/2 year younger, I know her a bit (an acquaintance I kiss in the cheek to greet her basically), never talked much to her, but I think she's kinda into me, when she and her bf pass by me, they start giggling and all so yeah.. kinda suspicious to me ahah. She's nice and all I was thinking on just starting talking to her, not sure about what really though.
-Girl 3: 2/3 years younger, really beautiful, and nice for her age. Don't know her, never talked to her, one of my friends knows her though. I don't know whats up with her, but it has happened that a couple of times I've looked at her and she looked at me, and she smiled after, or like went with her group near to the place where I was sitting. Once I've even locked eye contact for a couple of seconds and she went surprised and laughed to her friends. Know her fb, but haven't add her yet, not sure if I should since, I shouldn't even know her name.
... I want first of all to be friends with them, I don't know, my school is getting smaller and I feel like I need to know more people, and my school is my only option basically :/ So, do you have any advice on how should I approach them ? I have fb of the Girl 1 and 2, I thinked on starting to talk to the 2 by fb since I actually know her a bit. To be sincere, I'd really like to start talking to the 1 and 3, knowing I don't have much chance with the 1 though.
Thanks in Advance guys !