Bingo-Player
Master Don Juan
A friend was telling me this morning how a new girl hes seeing isn’t putting out
Theyve been on 3 dates and back to his twice the most he’s had is some boob ......He is more than prepared to put up with her sh*t so he can get between her legs but i wouldn’t put up with it
hes undoubtly playing it wrong with this girl because she is quite clearly running things but it did spark an interesting debate about how quickly you should expect sex
I See this is as a bit of a paradox in the game because if you don’t express clear sexual intent within the first few hours of meeting her , she’s gonna take control and start playing with you enjoying the power that comes with “making you wait”
On the flip side if you do express a clear sexual intent to her you run a risk of being labelled creepy or “thirsty”
The only thing that you can do to stop this is have complete confidence in knowing what you’re doing and when your gonna do it .....which is a really difficult skill to master
Personally when it comes to sex i like to be in charge and i like my girls to be submissive i want her to be fully aware that if things heat up shes getting pounded i aint about "waiting for the right time" , i don’t mind a little resistance to show shes not a complete wh*re......... sure she makes me pin her arms back & sexy stuff like that is all good
But when they physically stop the flow it starts to become a chore and nothing turns me off faster
Thankfully i rarely get the whole “I’m not ready yet” or “lets wait” (which btw are all indirect routes straight to the friend zone)
I don’t believe for one second a woman that’s interested in you would want to wait any longer than she had too for the D , therefore if shes “ not putting out”
your doing something wrong
Theyve been on 3 dates and back to his twice the most he’s had is some boob ......He is more than prepared to put up with her sh*t so he can get between her legs but i wouldn’t put up with it
hes undoubtly playing it wrong with this girl because she is quite clearly running things but it did spark an interesting debate about how quickly you should expect sex
I See this is as a bit of a paradox in the game because if you don’t express clear sexual intent within the first few hours of meeting her , she’s gonna take control and start playing with you enjoying the power that comes with “making you wait”
On the flip side if you do express a clear sexual intent to her you run a risk of being labelled creepy or “thirsty”
The only thing that you can do to stop this is have complete confidence in knowing what you’re doing and when your gonna do it .....which is a really difficult skill to master
Personally when it comes to sex i like to be in charge and i like my girls to be submissive i want her to be fully aware that if things heat up shes getting pounded i aint about "waiting for the right time" , i don’t mind a little resistance to show shes not a complete wh*re......... sure she makes me pin her arms back & sexy stuff like that is all good
But when they physically stop the flow it starts to become a chore and nothing turns me off faster
Thankfully i rarely get the whole “I’m not ready yet” or “lets wait” (which btw are all indirect routes straight to the friend zone)
I don’t believe for one second a woman that’s interested in you would want to wait any longer than she had too for the D , therefore if shes “ not putting out”
your doing something wrong