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Three Plates/Booty Calls...all of them suck

gravityeyelids

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I need to make some big changes. I have three girls this semester that were all ONS while drunk, all three are basically booty calls, but none of them do it for me. This is not meant to be me bragging at all...these girls with maybe the exception of the first, aren't very attractive.. I will describe each and hopefully through writing realize that i need to change this because i know i can do better (quality not quantity)

Girl 1 - Brunette. Met this girl...ehh id say like 2 or 3 months ago at a party. Initially tried to go for her b!tchy, hot blonde roommate. Like a 6.75 on my scale. Not big, but i guess a little bit thicker. Not as thick as the other two. Nice face, especially with make-up. I've hit her up...i want to say 4 times over the course of two months. Shes the only one who will simply stop texting if i suggest meeting up and she doesnt want to. At first i thought it was done and she didnt want to meet up again....but then i hit her up a few weeks later and she came over.
Personality - Doesn't exist. She is one of the most boring girls i've hooked up with. I think she's just really really shy, but she like never talks and it's awkward.
Sex - Probably better over all than the other two..but the sex is like her personality....BORING. Not a bad kisser, but she just basically lays there. Like doesnt even put her hand down my pants until she's REALLY turned on. The one good thing is once my pants are off she IMMMEDIATELY starts blowing me and like doesnt stop...she'll be down there for like 10-20 minutes until i stop her to have sex. Shes not amazing at it...but its okay.

Girl 2 - Blonde. Okay so from the chest up this girl is like a 7 (on my scale that is average, or slightly above). Decent face. Problem is...she is thick around the waist and her ass is....jello. Like from the waist down she's like a 5. Took her home from a party after making out with her there....easy as pie...no resistance what-so-ever.
Personality - I guess better than the other two...i could actuallly vibe with her a little and she actually teases me back. But shes kind of obnoxious. After i banged her real good i didnt really want to make chit-chat and she was like trying to argue (in a flirty way..over something stupid, like why her car is better than mine), and it was just annoying. I guess im just a ****, because she was trying to like cuddle and makeout..but after i busted she just didnt look good man...Anyway definately not a girl i would even keep around as a friend to just hangout with.
Sex - Meh...why are all these girls so bad at it? Head was very lame....like she hadnt done it much before...same with boning. She like doesnt know how to ride on top (hurts my johnson), and when i'm on top she just...idk man shes just bad, or unexperienced. I mean i'm getting these girls off so i know they're enjoying it...she even said stuff like "you're amazing at this" or "you're so good". But for a booty call they should at least be good at banging....

Girl 3 - Redhead - Same thing. went home with her after a party....just cause it was easy and i had struck out with all the hot chicks and she was eyeing me the whole night and she was like the last girl there. (i guess i didnt completely strike out..got two other cute girl's numbers and made out with one). I was real drunk and actually had a good time banging her....In the dark.
Personality - ehh...better than the other two but thats not saying much. still no one i would date.
Sex - She actually wasnt terrible at sex..gets super wet and can actually ride on top decently...but shes like the least attractive of the three. Like i saw her when i went over sober to her house a week or two later to bang....i could barely get it up. She was so bad at giving head. Did this annoying "popping" noise every time she pulled it out of her mouth...like she saw it on a porno and thought it was hot or something...like every 10 secs she does this. Not going to hit her up again....

ALSO, I'm SICK of getting with girls and then finding out they have roommates that are much hotter than them. This is killing my self esteem. Especially since i know i should be getting these girls.

NONE of these three are good in bed...Some guys on here are going to flame me and say how can i be *****ing when i have three girls to bang...but guys...if you saw these three sober, and then looked at me, you'd be like "why are YOU sleeping with HER?". Yes, i'm ****y. I am attractive, in amazing shape, good at sex, have a big johnson, and my game is solid (well maybe not as solid as i thought).

The situation i'm in is dangerous, because i've been thinking about my ex. Thoughts like...maybe it was a bad idea to break things off with her...maybe i wont find another girl like that again, one that i actually LIKE hanging out with, one that is attractive and interesting and decent at sex....

It's just annoying because i can pull these mediocre girls so easily...but they only look good when i;m drunk and/or really horny. None of the numbers/dates from the cute girls have panned out (besides like one). I'm not getting the results i want and i'm selling myself short. I've already made a promise to myself to not get so terribly drunk, and to make a very conscious effort to ONLY try to get with very attractive girls when drinking. Also, i should attempt more day game...im getting very rusty. i'm thinking i should cut ties with alll three. especially since i read something in a pickup book that basically said "have nothing" when you go out. Dont get lazy because you think you MIIIIGHT have this girl you've been texting....or you MIIIGHT be meeting up with a mediocre booty call later. If you go out with nothing then you will make more of an effort to get with good chicks.

Ignore this rant if you want. Or critique/encourage me. I just needed to get it out there. Hopefully theres other guys out there who can identify.
 

El Suave

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Story of my life. So what, bang them when you're drunk. If you stop drinking, you'll go through a dry spell until you find one you like. Beware of oneitis then. Just a thought.

Nothing wrong with banging a fat chick sometimes, give back to the community...
 

Ronaldo7

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It seems drinking is what is holding you back. You end up with these girls because of it. Stay calm, cool and collected. Drink a little or don't drink at all if you feel it might tempt you to drink more. Drinking impairs your mindset and your mojo. Do you need to drink to get in the "zone"?
 

MOTU

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Gravity, I am upgrading my plates now too, for similar reasons. For me, I think I ended up fvcking the less attractive chicks because it was easier. Hotter chicks take more time and patience than lesser desirable ones. So pure laziness on my part.

But I decided it was time for better and have been working the plan, one upgrade is complete and I am working on two more.
 

Sofomore

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Well you're doing things better than 90% of the guys on here. Just go spin more plates. Easier said than done, but always be looking for better options. If you have the mentality to find hot girls, you will get there eventually. Having these girls as backups will kill your neediness so half of the battle has been won.
 

Dgwizdal

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Drop them all and start over. Just did that for the first time - giving myself a little time to recharge the batteries and focus on me before summer kicks in. Feels weird tbh but think it'll be good not to have any chicks to deal with for a few weeks.
 

Pardner

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You got laid out of it. Why keep them when they suck? Get some new ones
 
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