Girl I've been seeing for 2 months, but not in a relationship with, has gone home for Easter and so is unavailable for the next 2 weeks, and because we're kinda long distance, the last time I saw her was 2 weeks ago.
So..when you know someone is not available to make plans with for the next two weekends, do you ask/try make plans now, or continue how I have been (few texts every few days) and delay asking until its closer to the time we're both available?
Does it even make a difference? I don't like the idea of having something set in stone that's up to 3 weeks away JUST to make myself feel better, cos even if she says yea now she can still flake.
I'm thinking that my eagerness to ask her out now is born out of neediness, but maybe it is actually the solid play???
What would you do?
Also, potential mistake I do not want to make again..
Last time I saw her I felt we got pretty close and she last minute cancelled some plans so I could stay longer - was me staying a mistake? I've been reading I should be in and out, leave them wanting more. But when you've travelled quite a long way, I thought staying made sense.
Ty guys
So..when you know someone is not available to make plans with for the next two weekends, do you ask/try make plans now, or continue how I have been (few texts every few days) and delay asking until its closer to the time we're both available?
Does it even make a difference? I don't like the idea of having something set in stone that's up to 3 weeks away JUST to make myself feel better, cos even if she says yea now she can still flake.
I'm thinking that my eagerness to ask her out now is born out of neediness, but maybe it is actually the solid play???
What would you do?
Also, potential mistake I do not want to make again..
Last time I saw her I felt we got pretty close and she last minute cancelled some plans so I could stay longer - was me staying a mistake? I've been reading I should be in and out, leave them wanting more. But when you've travelled quite a long way, I thought staying made sense.
Ty guys