logicallefty
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Tried this new proactive tactic and it seems to have worked like I wanted.
This HB I am seeing texts me last night
HB: "You won't believe this. I am the founder of a Facebook group and your ex GF NAME just signed up and posted some stuff. Looks like she and I have a mutual friend FRIEND NAME"
My thoughts were "oh boy, here comes the drama-train".
Lefty: "Wow small world. FRIEND NAME is her boss. Thanks for the info. Just to let you know I don't associate to more than an acquaintance level with anyone who also associates with her (my ex) ."
HB: "What is that supposed to mean?"
Lefty: "It means exactly what it says"
HB: "So are you saying I can't talk to her?"
Lefty: "No. I am saying if you do talk to her then I can't be anymore than your acquaintance"
HB: "I can't believe you would accuse me of talking to her! You don't trust me! I thought you trusted me! Good night!!"
Lefty: "Night"
She called, texted, and Emailed me 1x each within the next hour.
Emailed again this morning apologizing for being a "typical female" and getting b|tchy! She asked me if I wanted her to leave the FB group and turn it over to someone else. I said "you don't HAVE to do anything, you are a free woman"
All is well. Now. She said she can't wait to b@ng my brains out this weekend!
This HB I am seeing texts me last night
HB: "You won't believe this. I am the founder of a Facebook group and your ex GF NAME just signed up and posted some stuff. Looks like she and I have a mutual friend FRIEND NAME"
My thoughts were "oh boy, here comes the drama-train".
Lefty: "Wow small world. FRIEND NAME is her boss. Thanks for the info. Just to let you know I don't associate to more than an acquaintance level with anyone who also associates with her (my ex) ."
HB: "What is that supposed to mean?"
Lefty: "It means exactly what it says"
HB: "So are you saying I can't talk to her?"
Lefty: "No. I am saying if you do talk to her then I can't be anymore than your acquaintance"
HB: "I can't believe you would accuse me of talking to her! You don't trust me! I thought you trusted me! Good night!!"
Lefty: "Night"
She called, texted, and Emailed me 1x each within the next hour.
Emailed again this morning apologizing for being a "typical female" and getting b|tchy! She asked me if I wanted her to leave the FB group and turn it over to someone else. I said "you don't HAVE to do anything, you are a free woman"
All is well. Now. She said she can't wait to b@ng my brains out this weekend!