So I've been through six women now since my breakup months ago. Each time I met the newest one I actually felt less satisfied. One I've known about two years and dated, kissed but never banged her until this July. She asked to be exclusive last week. She's been my main plate for six weeks so thought why not, I wanted to keep things simple for a while and focus more on myself and she's been a friend who's really laid back and not needy so.....
Here's the problem. I just met her for lunch to go for a walk and she was really happy like oh I have a boyfriend now, locking her arm around mine, stopping to hug me, smiley.
So then she starts up this conversation on the walk about her neighbor's friend being an attorney and owing him a favor so the attorney is going to look over her parenting plan court papers and he said they can just do it over some drinks and she can pay.
What annoys me is this - she asked if I had a problem with it. I said no why would I? She said because I would have a problem with you having drinks with a female attorney. I said so why are you doing it to me? She said well I'm asking you if you're ok with it because the relationship is new and you can come along if you want. I just laughed and said I'm not going to follow you around and check up on you and I'm not going to tell you what to do. I trust you so do whatever it is you need to do. She looked reassured after that. Then I said just don't do anything you wouldn't want me to do. She seemed scared of something right after that, like she thought I was mad or she was wrong. When I first met her, she said her ex was controlling and said she'd never see her kid again if she didn't stop talking to some guy at work (no wasn't me). Maybe that's on her mind.
So I have to say now that an hour's past since the conversation I'm getting irritated. I don't understand the point of bringing this up with me. Make me jealous? See if I'm a doormat who is ok with double standards? See if I'm controlling? She's trying to be a good, honest girlfriend? Or she feels guilty because there's more to the story....
Here's the problem. I just met her for lunch to go for a walk and she was really happy like oh I have a boyfriend now, locking her arm around mine, stopping to hug me, smiley.
So then she starts up this conversation on the walk about her neighbor's friend being an attorney and owing him a favor so the attorney is going to look over her parenting plan court papers and he said they can just do it over some drinks and she can pay.
What annoys me is this - she asked if I had a problem with it. I said no why would I? She said because I would have a problem with you having drinks with a female attorney. I said so why are you doing it to me? She said well I'm asking you if you're ok with it because the relationship is new and you can come along if you want. I just laughed and said I'm not going to follow you around and check up on you and I'm not going to tell you what to do. I trust you so do whatever it is you need to do. She looked reassured after that. Then I said just don't do anything you wouldn't want me to do. She seemed scared of something right after that, like she thought I was mad or she was wrong. When I first met her, she said her ex was controlling and said she'd never see her kid again if she didn't stop talking to some guy at work (no wasn't me). Maybe that's on her mind.
So I have to say now that an hour's past since the conversation I'm getting irritated. I don't understand the point of bringing this up with me. Make me jealous? See if I'm a doormat who is ok with double standards? See if I'm controlling? She's trying to be a good, honest girlfriend? Or she feels guilty because there's more to the story....
