I have run into a problem. To be honest i mostly date women who are average in looks with the occasional hottie. The average girls become enamored with me quickly and push for exclusivity. They want me to wife them up and be their boyfriend. I have no interest in becoming any girls boyfriend because i consider most relationships with girls as a net loss in quality of life. They expect you to pay for dates, and activities and all they supply is p***. My question is how do you guys avoid the exclusivity trap?
Most girls will only let you be free for so long before pushing for the "where is this going speech". If you dont get in a relationship with them they eventually call you immature, player, jerk, azzho*e and eventually leave? I dont think this is fair to guys. When men want to have a harem of "pseudo girlfriends" they are demonized. But when women have "pseudo boyfriends" aka orbiters its ok.
To clarify i am not talking about using girls as just FWB or late night booty calls. I am talking about a girl who you treat like a gf but you still have other plates that you also treat as a gf. I dont think we should be demonized for this.
Most girls will only let you be free for so long before pushing for the "where is this going speech". If you dont get in a relationship with them they eventually call you immature, player, jerk, azzho*e and eventually leave? I dont think this is fair to guys. When men want to have a harem of "pseudo girlfriends" they are demonized. But when women have "pseudo boyfriends" aka orbiters its ok.
To clarify i am not talking about using girls as just FWB or late night booty calls. I am talking about a girl who you treat like a gf but you still have other plates that you also treat as a gf. I dont think we should be demonized for this.