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A lot of people on here are hating society and saying that it is the problem that they are the way that they are. No, it was not society, it was those around you and YOUR OWN SELF. Your misinterpretations and over-analysis of everything.

When society said 'be yourself', it was meant in the sense that you must be your TRUE self, the self that acts without thought of repercussions and without care or worry of what others will think of you. The almost primitive form of you that wants something and will work for it no matter the consequences or hardships that MAY occur. The self that does not think, but only DOES. The self that does not analyze, but acts. The self that does not rely on others for guidance, but rather moves about in his own path with confidence. This is what 'be yourself' means! A Don Juan does not think or care for anyone or anything in the way of his goals. He knows what his goals are and knows what he wants and he will strive to achieve them. He does not care what others think of him because he wants what he wants because he is himself. He has too much respect for himself to conform to the needs or wants of others, thus others will in return respect HIM for it.

When society tells you 'just don't care', is that not what we preach here? We tell all who come toughen up your ego, to not let anyone affect it. A Don Juan is in control of his emotions. Why? Because he does not care. He is in control of himself. and that is the reason why those around him will respect him. That is why a Don Juan is a charismatic leader. This is why a Don Juan is a MAN. http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=16903

When society say to you 'if you believe, you can achieve', you must realize that you must have the mindset of striving towards your goals like a TRUE Don Juan with the utmost confidence KNOWING that you will achieve your goals. It is the mindset that we all must have. The mindset that has been stressed so heavily upon. 'As you think, you shall become.' Dare I quote who said this? This is the basis for the Laws of Attraction or Manifestation. This is why mindset is all! This is why when you, as a Don Juan, say to yourself 'she definitely likes me' that she always actually ends up liking you!

What happens when you hear 'never give up'? Do you misinterpret it as to be clingy and desperate? YES YOU DO! And that is your own fault. So what do you do as to not hurt your ego? You 'next' the girl. That is giving up, not nexting. We preach AGAINST doing that. What we condone instead is confident persistence. That is what a true Don Juan does. He does not give up until his goals are accomplished, yet he does not chase after his goals in a hopeless manner because he does not have one single goal, he has many. His time is valuable because it cannot be wasted on one single objective. He pursues confidently because he knows that he will achieve his desires no matter what. It is only a matter of when.

What do you do when someone tells you 'treat others the way you want to be treated'? You get infuriated by the fact that whenever you are nice, you are mistreated and abused. This is your own fault. You did not treat yourself with respect and thus others will do the same. You tried to manipulate people by being nice to them, yet this is a shallow mindset and people can very easily see through it. People take it that you don't respect them in a sense so they will not treat you with respect either. After all, you only want something from them.
 
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