Is it ever acceptable to follow this protocol?
I knew a guy who was engaged to my ex-girlfriend's sister. He literally did not give a f*ck about anything and was totally OK with anything his girl wanted. Where they lived, the vacations they went on, where they ate dinner, what religion they were going to follow, etc. He really enjoyed the lifestyle she led and was perfectly content with letting her lead. Now he had a high paying job and worked from home. She also had a great job and came from a very wealthy family. So money was not an issue in this. Actually one reason I broke up with my ex-girlfriend was because I was not like this guy at all. I usually had a preference about our day-to-day lifestyle or major life decisions. These girls had google calendars that they would share with us to make sure we knew about the social engagements we were attending. Personally I had to draw the line at limiting some of these social events, but he did not care at all.
I'm just wondering, if you are really into a girl for a long-term relationship, do you think that mentality is good for the long-term? I feel like a man should be able to express his preference on some level. But this guy just didn't care at all. Maybe I just envy him?
I knew a guy who was engaged to my ex-girlfriend's sister. He literally did not give a f*ck about anything and was totally OK with anything his girl wanted. Where they lived, the vacations they went on, where they ate dinner, what religion they were going to follow, etc. He really enjoyed the lifestyle she led and was perfectly content with letting her lead. Now he had a high paying job and worked from home. She also had a great job and came from a very wealthy family. So money was not an issue in this. Actually one reason I broke up with my ex-girlfriend was because I was not like this guy at all. I usually had a preference about our day-to-day lifestyle or major life decisions. These girls had google calendars that they would share with us to make sure we knew about the social engagements we were attending. Personally I had to draw the line at limiting some of these social events, but he did not care at all.
I'm just wondering, if you are really into a girl for a long-term relationship, do you think that mentality is good for the long-term? I feel like a man should be able to express his preference on some level. But this guy just didn't care at all. Maybe I just envy him?