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The No Contact: Mentality and Goals(Must Read)

EvilSpirit22

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She left you,and you are standing in the middle of the road,wondering what went wrong?

You did everything according to her wish,you surrendered wherever you felt like you should have bashed her for being wrong

and talking **** in front of your face,

she ignored you for her friends,she even insulted you in front of them,she called you names,didn't return your calls or

replied back to your text messages,

she swallowed all your hard earned money and you had to sacrifice your needs and wishes for her,you cried alone pitying on

yourself,but you kept QUIET.


What you got in the end? The angel,the girl of your dreams,your princess left you.

You loved her a lot and you might still be in love with her and you wish to get her back in your life because she treated

you like a piece of **** and tossed you out of her life for just one reason and that is you LOVED her truly that you

allowed her to do everything she wanted to do and you did whatever she told you to do just to make her happy and show your

unconditional love towards her.



The No Contact: Mentality

1. Accept that she is gone and is not coming back ever again in this life.

2. Accept that she might have even slept with some other guy during your absence.

3. If she can live without you for a day,week or months,she can spend her entire life without you in it.

4. She played with your feelings and left you alone.

5. When you were crying,she was busy texting some other guy.

6. You could have committed suicide but she never called you to check on you and your well-being.

7. All the moments you spent together,She ended them in just one moment.

8. She treated you very badly,disrespected you,abused you or even used you for money.

9. She killed the lover inside you and was never ashamed of it

10. If she loved you why did she left you?



The No Contact: Goals and what to do?

1.Take a BREAK for at least 3 months and don't contact any woman.

2.You should do whatever the **** you wanted to do while you were with her.

3.If you're fat,you should lose that weight so that you don't end with average girls like her.

4.If you're skinny,you should workout and gain some muscle-mass.

5.Use this period to get better at everything you believe was responsible for your breakup.

6. Delete all online accounts and profiles like Facebook,Twitter etc.

7. Delete her contact number,photos and other things which reminds you of her.

8. Love yourself and accept your weaknesses and try to improve them.

9. Have a GOAL in mind which you want to achieve. A car,A house,A good body etc.

10. Embrace your sexuality and accept that it is perfectly fine to have erections and stuff and express your sexuality.

11. Be Brave and don't lie to yourself to just get acceptance from other people.

12. Do what you want to do and not what others tell you do.

13. The only woman you should actually trust is your Mom. Every other women on this planet is Devilish.

14. Don't Take **** from anyone.



Why i said no to contact any woman during this phase is because you should utilize this period to become better rather than

starting that vicious circle of getting dumped again and again. Its better to improve yourself and concentrate on your betterment.


Start living you life independently without the need of having a woman in your life. If you're giving your 100 % to get better in Life I assure you that women would start chasing you. And at that point of time when you actually become the prize,You would start REJECTING them.


And yeah during this phase of transformation your EX will approach you and would become the sweetest person of the planet and at that time please don't go back to her. You have created a world for yourself and the people who deserve you and your attention. Don't allow her in your Kingdom.



If she was not with you at your worst,She certainly doesn't deserves you at your BEST.
 

EvilSpirit22

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