I live in Thailand, where most clubs are filled with big groups of mixed guys and girls and I just don't have the confidence to make those approaches. When I see a girl sitting solo or walking back from the bathroom, I can usually approach just fine, but this only happens on an odd moon or so.
So, I use mainly online dating as my vice to talk to and meet new women and friends outside of my own circle of friends' friends.
I have a silly, stupid interesting profile written in Thai (I'm a White American, can speak Thai fluently at an elementary level) that tends to get attention when girls read it. Obviously, not everyone sends a reply. I find opening in Thai to be super boring and it drags out to the long ass "Whats your name? How olds are you? What do you do? Blah blah blah" and **** never goes anywhere. English to Thai translations are far too literal, and sarcasm is hardly ever understood, used and in most cases, tends to offend to the point of me looking like an ******* when I try to use it. Jokes go right over everyone's head.
So, I want to switch back to mostly going in with English. Most Thai girls English skills are super poor, so I need some simple, simple openers that shouldn't be too hard for anyone to understand.
Also, are there any other resources for international dating in SE Asia. I'm not some sexpat looking for bar girls. In the past, I've hooked up with Thai Celebs, FHM/Playmates, show car models, and prefer the lighter skinner, more Chinese looking Thai girls, but that was all before I got out of this 4 year LTR and I've honestly lost my touch and can't remember what I was doing right back that (I honestly never thought I had game or was a natural at it... I was just in the right spot at the right time and met a girl).
So, I use mainly online dating as my vice to talk to and meet new women and friends outside of my own circle of friends' friends.
I have a silly, stupid interesting profile written in Thai (I'm a White American, can speak Thai fluently at an elementary level) that tends to get attention when girls read it. Obviously, not everyone sends a reply. I find opening in Thai to be super boring and it drags out to the long ass "Whats your name? How olds are you? What do you do? Blah blah blah" and **** never goes anywhere. English to Thai translations are far too literal, and sarcasm is hardly ever understood, used and in most cases, tends to offend to the point of me looking like an ******* when I try to use it. Jokes go right over everyone's head.
So, I want to switch back to mostly going in with English. Most Thai girls English skills are super poor, so I need some simple, simple openers that shouldn't be too hard for anyone to understand.
Also, are there any other resources for international dating in SE Asia. I'm not some sexpat looking for bar girls. In the past, I've hooked up with Thai Celebs, FHM/Playmates, show car models, and prefer the lighter skinner, more Chinese looking Thai girls, but that was all before I got out of this 4 year LTR and I've honestly lost my touch and can't remember what I was doing right back that (I honestly never thought I had game or was a natural at it... I was just in the right spot at the right time and met a girl).
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