Great being a man
Don Juan
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Here's an easy to do "field test" that any man can do, and can help you find ways of improving your chances with women..........
Ok, this is very easy, and not stressful........it doesn't require you to do any approaching, or speaking (unless you want to)
1. Get yourself cleaned up.......shower, shave, groomed, brushed teeth. Put on some decent aftershave or cologne.
2. Put on some nice clothes.......weather appropriate. T shirts and jeans are OK......the shirt must be wrinkle free, the jeans clean. Shorts are ok..........not the idiotic ones that hang to the floor. Sandals are ok.........just make sure they look new. Avoid ball caps.........ball caps make you look like a farmer.
No muscle shirts.........they look dumb on most men.
No need to "dress to the nines"..........but just make certain you are wearing nice clothes.
3. Go out in public.........It doesn't matter where ( I would avoid places where there are mostly older people, funerals, nursing homes etc)
Go to malls, museums, bookstores, coffee shops, gift shops, yes even Wal Mart and Target...........just walk around, and take mental notes to see if you are noticed by women. It's not difficult to do. If some look at you and smile, or just seem to like your presence.......that's great.
If you are being largely ignored, or just looked at as though you're a yard shrub, then you aren't attractive enough. You need to change your style........possibly your posture. Remember, don't walk around looking like Hanibal Lechter...........just be pleasant, smile. Say hi.
Keep mental notes about the results, what seemed to attract, what didn't.
Always remember, if a woman doesn't find you attractive, you can say or do nothing right.........if they find you attractive, you can say or do very little wrong...........at least initially.
Many men like to see themselves as great salesmen........they can talk any woman into a date. Forget it. You're dealing with women, not selling Fords.
A good tip: go to the mall, find a salesgirl to help you buy some nice clothes......they are only too happy. And who knows? You may get a date......
Best of luck
Ok, this is very easy, and not stressful........it doesn't require you to do any approaching, or speaking (unless you want to)
1. Get yourself cleaned up.......shower, shave, groomed, brushed teeth. Put on some decent aftershave or cologne.
2. Put on some nice clothes.......weather appropriate. T shirts and jeans are OK......the shirt must be wrinkle free, the jeans clean. Shorts are ok..........not the idiotic ones that hang to the floor. Sandals are ok.........just make sure they look new. Avoid ball caps.........ball caps make you look like a farmer.
No muscle shirts.........they look dumb on most men.
No need to "dress to the nines"..........but just make certain you are wearing nice clothes.
3. Go out in public.........It doesn't matter where ( I would avoid places where there are mostly older people, funerals, nursing homes etc)
Go to malls, museums, bookstores, coffee shops, gift shops, yes even Wal Mart and Target...........just walk around, and take mental notes to see if you are noticed by women. It's not difficult to do. If some look at you and smile, or just seem to like your presence.......that's great.
If you are being largely ignored, or just looked at as though you're a yard shrub, then you aren't attractive enough. You need to change your style........possibly your posture. Remember, don't walk around looking like Hanibal Lechter...........just be pleasant, smile. Say hi.
Keep mental notes about the results, what seemed to attract, what didn't.
Always remember, if a woman doesn't find you attractive, you can say or do nothing right.........if they find you attractive, you can say or do very little wrong...........at least initially.
Many men like to see themselves as great salesmen........they can talk any woman into a date. Forget it. You're dealing with women, not selling Fords.
A good tip: go to the mall, find a salesgirl to help you buy some nice clothes......they are only too happy. And who knows? You may get a date......
Best of luck