Masculinity
Master Don Juan
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Interesting situation
Long story short, there's a woman I find a attractive who also happens to be my colleague (volunteers for the same organization). She is also in the same honors program I am in at school. I am not sure if I am reading the signs too closely or if she's actually sending messages, so I wanted to ask you all for your opinion.
Lately, she:
-Initiates conversations often (about ANYTHING)
-Automatically assumes higher intellectual value in me
-Asks questions to which she should know the answers, by the very virtue of her position as a colleague and honors student
-Smiles often
-Feels comfortable in my proximity
-Asks me for leadership
Quick reference: I was looking at a document in her computer the other day. I asked her a question about it, and she immediately came over and came VERY close to me and my face. In addition, I had my hand on the mousepad of her computer and she began using the trackpad obviously touching my hand in the process.
THE GOOD: She may end her connection to the institution in two months, so we would not have the labor wall between us (I don't like dating women in these situations) and I can do whatever with her.
THE BAD: Any involvement with her, if it hit the fan, would be a negative impact to my reputation. However, she's seems hot for me now, so I don't want to send signs of DISINTEREST. I gave her a compliment today about her earrings and she was all smiles.
To wrap it up, she JUST saw me talking to another woman outside. What did she do? "Pssst! Hi, Masculinity
" and waved at me. Got to love women and their competitive instincts!
If this situation were outside of the field of work, I would easily pursue this woman. However, this is the first time this happens to me at. What do you guys think?
Long story short, there's a woman I find a attractive who also happens to be my colleague (volunteers for the same organization). She is also in the same honors program I am in at school. I am not sure if I am reading the signs too closely or if she's actually sending messages, so I wanted to ask you all for your opinion.
Lately, she:
-Initiates conversations often (about ANYTHING)
-Automatically assumes higher intellectual value in me
-Asks questions to which she should know the answers, by the very virtue of her position as a colleague and honors student
-Smiles often
-Feels comfortable in my proximity
-Asks me for leadership
Quick reference: I was looking at a document in her computer the other day. I asked her a question about it, and she immediately came over and came VERY close to me and my face. In addition, I had my hand on the mousepad of her computer and she began using the trackpad obviously touching my hand in the process.
THE GOOD: She may end her connection to the institution in two months, so we would not have the labor wall between us (I don't like dating women in these situations) and I can do whatever with her.
THE BAD: Any involvement with her, if it hit the fan, would be a negative impact to my reputation. However, she's seems hot for me now, so I don't want to send signs of DISINTEREST. I gave her a compliment today about her earrings and she was all smiles.
To wrap it up, she JUST saw me talking to another woman outside. What did she do? "Pssst! Hi, Masculinity
" and waved at me. Got to love women and their competitive instincts! If this situation were outside of the field of work, I would easily pursue this woman. However, this is the first time this happens to me at. What do you guys think?
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