When it comes to women I think your best off just doing what feels natural. Text a girl when you feel like and spin plates, don't worry about going ghost or playing silly games with these stupid chicks. I'm not saying they don't work...they do...but for every chick that you get playing these stupid alpha male games you'll lose out on one who fears a player. My point is it evens itself out...long as your always talking to multiple women you should be ok and won't come across as too desperate or clingy. I've had a far better success rate with bedding women who I wasn't crazy about...than ones who I really liked. I think probably because I didn't give a **** about the outcome.