I've been lurking around this forum since the tender age of 14!
To cut a long story short I went from being an AFC in high school, to having a different girl every week in college, to having a failed LTR where I had reverted back to AFC, recovering again and now being in another LTR in which I am happy.
THE biggest problem I have found is maintaining the DJ frame all of the time, this doesn't just apply to women, it applies to everything.
When I frequent SS the DJ mindset comes back relatively quickly.
I'm going to be frequenting the site a lot more, as I know something within my mindset still isn't quite right so I keep reverting back to the AFC state.
The key is in changing your belief system to that of a DJ, and being honest with myself I haven't done this!
Expect to see a lot more posts from me!
To cut a long story short I went from being an AFC in high school, to having a different girl every week in college, to having a failed LTR where I had reverted back to AFC, recovering again and now being in another LTR in which I am happy.
THE biggest problem I have found is maintaining the DJ frame all of the time, this doesn't just apply to women, it applies to everything.
When I frequent SS the DJ mindset comes back relatively quickly.
I'm going to be frequenting the site a lot more, as I know something within my mindset still isn't quite right so I keep reverting back to the AFC state.
The key is in changing your belief system to that of a DJ, and being honest with myself I haven't done this!
Expect to see a lot more posts from me!